People really fall in love with the way they treat us

At first, we are attracted by the person, by their appearance, by their gestures, by their smile. The beautiful draws attention, in all sectors of our lives, whether moments, objects, places or people. However, beauty alone does not sustain itself, if it is not accompanied by essence, from what we do not see, but which is essential.

In fact, time leaves only what touches our heart and soul in a unique and special way, and that has nothing to do with designer clothes, Victorian furniture or blue eyes. So much so that, many times, we end up finding beautiful, over time, many people who at first did not call our attention for their appearance.

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That’s because love is something from within, something that goes through what’s out there, installing itself inside us, without warning, without being seen by the naked eye. Our inner being is just like that, it depends on attitudes, on what we feel, on what they make us feel, far beyond the eyes. What touches us deeply is not manipulated with our fingers, but with the affective involvement that is beyond appearances.

The most important thing in all of this is to know with certainty what we are looking for, as well as what we do not want for ourselves. If we are aware that we cannot receive less than we deserve, we will hardly bring to us those who only suck, who lie, who do not return anything. It is necessary to see beyond what the eyes can see, to perceive what the other has to offer, in terms of truth, the desire to be and to be together.

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We always have to take into account the passage of time, of the years, which takes away the stiffness of the muscles, the firmness of the skin, the strength of the spine, in addition to many of the dreams that end up not coming true. However, and this is undeniable, what is true, deep feelings, friendship, complicity and tenderness, nobody steals from us, neither time nor death.

Reciprocal and intense love, sustained beyond appearances, resists and persists, making us forever alive within the hearts that have joined ours with transparent feeling and sincere happiness. This is how love stays and this is how we become eternal.

Marcel Camargo