My Husband Wants To Live In Separate Houses: See!

When the relationship doesn’t go well, it’s common for one of the parties to want to walk away to see how it feels being away from the other. It is at this time that the husband or wife asks the two to live in separate houses. Here at we receive many women with the following complaint: my husband wants to live in separate houses!

Thinking of all these people who are going through this difficulty, we created this content with many tips to help you overcome it. Check out!

Learn all about powerful spiritual help for marriage in crisis!

Why do men change after conquest?

First, let’s understand because men change after conquest. This is a very common question for women who are in a relationship where their husband decides to walk away. After all, why do men change? Is it only men who change after conquest?

The truth is, we all change, men and women. Do you know why? We feel more confident, because the most difficult thing has already been done, which is to conquer the person. This overconfidence can bring about good things, such as tranquility and harmony between the couple, as well as bad things, such as a lack of concern for the relationship.

In the case of men or women who change completely after the conquest, almost always the reason is related to the lack of concern for the relationship. This person is simply not afraid of losing you, so they don’t value you!

I’m tired of waiting for something to happen

Waiting for him to change his behavior and start to value you is not a good option. Do you know why? You’re giving him time, space, and putting yourself in his hands. It’s needed take control out of his handsleave him without time and desperate, to then realize how important you are in his life.

The routine of the relationship, the wear and tear of the relationship and the time together, may have made him completely lose his fear of losing you. In fact, he got so used to having you by his side that he can’t even remember the reasons that made him fall in love with you.

That’s why you need to take control of the situation and show him that there’s a lot at stake. He needs feel this fear of losing youhe needs to lose all that trust he feels in having you in his hands, because that’s how he’ll realize the importance of your marriage in his life.

I’m tired of waiting for attitudes

And we know, there comes a time when you just tired of waiting for attitudes. You talk, he explains, but he continues with the same attitudes, hurting you, not giving importance to the relationship and acting like a single man.

That’s why you shouldn’t wait for attitudes, you have to act! If you wait for changes and do nothing, things will not change and will only get worse between you. The more space and time you give him to think and change, the more the way is clear for him to move on without you and meet someone else. Have you ever thought about it?

But what to do in this situation? This is what we will explain in detail in the next topic!

What to do when he doesn’t want to live under the same roof?

If he wants to live in separate houses but still wants to keep the relationship with you, then he is testing this situation. He believes that he no longer feels the same love he felt for you before, but he doesn’t want to put it all away. That’s why he proposed this idea that, for him, will serve as a test to know if you are still important to him.

Well, if he thinks that way, he also thinks that he has you in his hands and that he can control this situation. So you should start by surprising him with a positive response. This will completely surprise him, as he probably hopes you won’t accept this idea.

Do you know why you should do this? By accepting to live in separate houses you show him that you may have lost interest in him too and that you are too able to move on. For those who think they have control of the situation, this is a bad sign.

Remember that you shouldn’t expect him to change? If you want change, change yourself. He is acting this way because he doesn’t value you, so start having attitudes that add value to yourself and that make him value you. See some tips:

• Change your look, dress better, take care of your hair and be better groomed;
• Whenever you go out, use a very striking and attractive perfume;
• Don’t keep calling and texting him all the time;
• When he looks for you, give him a cold and show that you have occupations in your day;
• Don’t run after him for anything, show that you have independence;
• Go out with your friends, do fun things, and make the most of your alone time.

With these new attitudes, he will probably be afraid of losing you, in the same way that you fear that the marriage will end. And believe me, if he still loves you and really wants to be with you, it will make him come back to you.

Spiritual help for a marriage in crisis

Finally, another way to take control of this situation and save your relationship is to seek spiritual help for marriage in crisis. At , you can get this help through the spiritual assistance provided by Maicon Paiva, who is the Spiritualist at .

Through this help you can find out what is causing him to pull away from you. The causes are not always related to the material plane, it may be that this removal is occurring due to spiritual, karmic or other causes. Therefore, it is important to investigate through spirituality as well.

Schedule your Spiritual Consultation with the team! In this consultation you will find out what to do to save your relationship.

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