Love has cooled and I no longer feel the same as before. What do I do?

Well, if you are here on this page right now, it means that the person you love came with the following conversation: “Our love is not the same anymore…”

Maybe she didn’t say that exactly, but she may have told you similar things, such as:

Our relationship is no longer the same;
Got into routine;
I no longer feel ‘that thing’ from the beginning;
I changed;
You changed;
It no longer hits ‘that league’;
It has cooled;
Things are different;
Our relationship is weird;
Etc., etc., etc.;

Anything similar to those above, It means your love is losing interest. And this could be happening for different reasons:

The person has lost their charm for you;
This person is repairing someone else;
You have dropped the ball a lot;
She’s feeling guilty about something you don’t know;
Family problems;
Personal problems;
Etc., etc., etc.

Today I’m going to tell you what you can do to rekindle the flame of this relationship…

1- Understand why the relationship has cooled…

The first step if you want this love to go back to what it was before is to understand what made it that cold.

Talk to the person you love. Sometimes a single conversation, if the person is willing to make it work, solves the problem. This way you will identify what may have made the love go cold. If it was routine, do different things; see what this person thinks is happening, if the problem is with them, if they are experiencing problems, difficulties.. Find out why things got to this point.

2- Once you find out the reason, work to find the solution…

If you’ve talked, done everything in your power and found out why the relationship has cooled, seek a solution to this. If the problem is you, if you have been making mistakes in your behavior or posture, try to improve, reduce what hinders you. Sometimes a person just needs to see a change in you for what they felt to rekindle.

3- Don’t be desperate

It is very common at this time for you, for fear of losing the person, to despair and start to behave differently, as if the person was on a pedestal, don’t do that, as it would only strengthen the idea of cooling in her head. What you should do is act rationally, in fact showing that you want to fix this with balance, intelligence and wisdom.

If you keep these things in mind, your relationship can go back to being better than it was before.