Love has 5 stages and only the strongest couples get past the 3rd.

You’ve probably heard the expression “prevention is better than cure” many times, and relationships are no exception. Experts believe that all relationships go through specific stages and one of them is quite critical. In this post, we look at those steps and what you really need to do to be prepared.

At the awesome.club We find it very interesting that all couples go through the same set of stages and we can’t wait to give you more details.

You just met someone special and everything is in honeymoon phase🇧🇷 There’s still that butterflies in your stomach every time you see your new love, every touch is electrifying and every kiss is endless. You check your cell phone every now and then to see if you have a message from him or her. Deep down, you know it looks a little ridiculous, but who cares? Well, we have someone clearly in love.

Keep it in your memories how you feel right now, you may need it later to refresh your memory.

You feel that everything is serious and you are ready to commit. Usually, at this stage, two people will live together, so let’s call them a “couple”. That’s when we realize that real life isn’t always rosy. You still try to spend as much time together as possible, you want to share all your thoughts and feelings, you always ask each other how your day was and you are sincerely interested in your answer. Nonetheless, the routine begins to contaminate the joy. It’s like finding the difference between traveling and going to live there: the destination is the same, but the circumstances are absolutely different.

Don’t lose that glow between you. Have some time just for the couple, take a relaxing walk or watch a movie. Keeping that bond is very special and very delicate.

You still have strong feelings for your other half, but something seems to be different. He doesn’t feel as excited about spending every minute with her as he used to. Daily responsibilities, bills, work commitments, and household chores get in the way of romance, and often you you feel stuck in this rut ​​and start to wonder if you made the right decision. This is the most dangerous phase of the relationship, and if you manage to get through it, there’s a good chance that the others will be much better.

Work to keep the flame going: your partner is still the same person you fell in love with. Always try to remember the feelings you had from the days you met him. And remember that life isn’t just about your kids, you deserve some alone time too.

At this stage, the feeling is of a lot of security in your relationship, people really are as they are. You may not feel like you’re on cloud nine like you did in phase 1, but the third stage, the confusion stage, is over. Both learned to give each other space, to understand that each one can have their own tastes and preferences, hobbies and habits, the two don’t have to be like conjoined twins, being stuck together all the time. Each can continue to be who they are as an individual and still maintain the bond.

If you’ve reached this stage, congratulations: you have become a true team for life🇧🇷 They no longer miss the first romantic phase because they feel very comfortable with their relationship and can’t even imagine it being different. You have also accepted that we are all perfect in our own imperfections.

Teach your children how they managed to maintain their feelings throughout their lives – of course they went through some challenges together, but true love is capable of anything.

What stage do you think your relationship is at? Do you have your own tricks on how to get through the most critical step? We would like to know your opinion.