Life partners love you just the way you are

Life partners love in such a way that the other person feels free.

Life partners are those people who mean much more than words can express. They are an essential part of your team, your nights and your days, your thoughts, your emotions, your dreams and your sleepless nights.

Life partners are more than being passionate lovers or committed couples.; It is loving yourself without excuses or ups and downs, it is accepting yourself, it is helping yourself grow, walking hand in hand through life and feeling full of love.

A life companion means being the best mattress for falls. A coat for winter. A breath of fresh air in hellish moments. The sun and the stars, a sky full of vitality.

-Do you love me?

-Yeah.

-Until where?

-Even the defects.

Only when you can accept the other’s being as it is, do you have love

Life partners love in such a way that the other person feels free. The beauty of a love like this is the conjunction, forming an emotional home, a place where there is nothing more beautiful than the two of you together. That is, it could be said that companion love is love squaredthe one that almost all of us aspire to and in which commitment, passion and friendship intermingle.

We cannot love halfway, we cannot “not love” a part of our partner, because if we do not do it in its entirety we are not loving anything. This does not mean that there are not things that we dislike, but at the end of the day the essence is what we need to love to do it fully.

“I love you enough to invite you to step on dry leaves one of these afternoons. I love you enough to go for a walk, talk about love, while we kick pebbles. I love you enough to make us become Chinese with laughter, drunk on nothing and stroll the streets leisurely.

I love you enough to go with you to the places I frequent most, and tell you that that’s where I sit and think about you. I love you enough to hear your laugh all night. I love you enough to never let you go.

“I love you like you love certain loves, the old-fashioned way, with my soul and without looking back.”

-Jaime Sabines, Mexican poet-

Loving is an art based on honesty

Loving is an art that requires patience, care, discipline, responsibility and commitment. It is a game of silences, of knowledge, of respect, of freedoms, of trust and of dedication. Even so, letting yourself be loved is something complicated.

Honesty should not only be in the feeling towards others, but in love for oneself, in acceptance and in our ability to reinvent ourselves every day.

To achieve this we have to be able to reinvent ourselves and overcome our difficulties. We have to respect our rhythms, know our needs, flow with attachment, get rid of expectations, be generous and forgive. Only in this way will we be able to be life partners.

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Being a perfect couple, a job for two

Being a perfect couple is not about not having problems, but about knowing how to overcome them together. We have to get angry, throw things at each other’s heads, impose ourselves, compete, judge ourselves, make mistakes, take a breath, count to ten and let go of what torments us.

Achieve the degree of lifemates It requires breaking down old walls and healing the wounds of our emotional past. To believe in love you first need to believe in yourself, hold on to the present, collect reasons, fight and achieve the desire.

Special care must be taken to ensure that each one follows his or her own path, to accept our limits and love our difficulties. We have to “let ourselves be”become a good lovehaving the audacity to take off our armor to accept and appreciate our own vulnerability.

“The true goal of existence,
It is not about loving,
Nor does it consist of letting yourself be loved.
It consists simply and plainly
to become love.”

-Thomas Schied-