Life is a daring adventure, or it is nothing

Living is a continuous adventure full of difficulties, shocks, confusion, and above all, experiences to discover, live and enjoy.. We can decide how to embark on our path through life, whether in an intense way, leaving a mark of our love behind us, or in a cautious way, limited by fears and insecurity. What do you decide?

It is evident that We all go through difficult situations, experiences that make us suffer, sad and bitter experiences.. All of this is part of the spectacle that is life. However, we have the choice of being the main or secondary characters of our own existence.

By taking control of every situation, we decide what attitude to take in each experience., and based on that, we face our fears and everything that paralyzes us; and that prevents us from clearly observing everything that is hidden behind adversity and behind internal conflict.

Love and fear are incompatible

These two primary energies, fear and love, are incompatible, we cannot feel both at the same time.. Which means that if we let it emerge and feed one of these energies, the other calms down and dissipates.

The fears we invent are related to the past and the future, based on something that happened, or on something that we are worried will happen. On the other hand, love focuses on the present, it is necessarily lived in the now. If we focus our energy on loving ourselves, we will be more able to live in the now, so we will live less in our fears.. An example of if we are in love we cannot be in fear, and vice versa:

They tell us that they offer us the opportunity to undertake a new project, which we have earned with our effort and dedication. Maybe you think: -I don’t know if I’ll be up to it, I’m afraid I’m not good enough, it entails a lot of responsibility and I run the risk of them wanting to do without me.- By obeying these fears we give them the possibility of growing and spreading. In such a way that even if we do a good job we will be tense, without enjoying and without offering all our creativity and spontaneity.

Now, imagine that you decide to obey love: -I have worked hard to get this opportunity, I have earned it and they have been able to recognize it, I am good enough to carry out this job and enjoy it, which is what matters. This time you will be obeying compassion, your worth, focusing on your love for yourself. This is the way to face your fear and conquer it. Thus converting your fear into wisdom.

Thanks to love we abandon our fears

What would you be able to do if you put aside your fears? Surely everything you proposed, you would expand the possibility of living a multitude of experiences and acquiring truly valuable learning. You would have the courage to live and give yourself to love in all its essence.

The same thing happens in the intimate relationships we maintain, the moment the fear of losing the relationship arises; for it to end, for them to no longer love us, for us to feel abandoned, unprotected and neglected at any moment. It is when you give way to fear, stopping feeling the same about that person. You abandon love, because you have surrendered to your fears. You have lost yourself in precisely what you feared. You go that way from one relationship to another.

We become cowardly people in our relationships, manifesting all types of avoidant and harmful behaviors. We appear confused and at the same time cruel. Our love remains, although fear has left it helpless and buried. Only love can save us from following this endless journey.

By surrendering again to the love that is always capable of resurfacing, we give ourselves the opportunity to abandon our fears.. It is a lesson in our lives that is repeated over and over again. When the old fears appear, be able to tell yourself: I decide what to feed, I am in control.

Dare to meet life

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