In love, distance is as relative as time

Long distance love is a highly discussed concept today. However, it is still possible if certain requirements are met. More in this article

He distance love It can be saved if we continue to believe that the earth is the size of our hands every time we look at them. Two people can feel next to each other, even if they are far away, because their feelings are connected on a deep level.

The distance cannot be hidden, especially when we reduce the word “love” to four letters, with no further meaning. This is why many relationships fail. We can’t manipulate time either, but we can make a moment last an eternity in the company of our partner. Also, we can recreate the moment over and over again in our memory.

In love at a distance: “You are the measure of my time”

Time will always be as relative as distance. Both terms are measured by the desire to see each other again. Additionally, you can say: “you are the measure of my time“. Mario Benedetti pointed out that there were plenty five minutes to dream a lifetime and he was not wrong: The time and kilometers that separate a couple in love can be reduced if both want it with all their might.

“It makes me sad to look at these things, to want these things, save these things.
It makes me sad to dream of myself going back to look for them, looking for myself again,
learning in myself that a dream cannot be dreamed again.”

-‘Of Joy’, José Hierro-

Love at a distance: there will be no distance as long as you keep looking at me

Above all, you have to know how to act in the present moment and enjoy what you have. If it’s worth it, you have to try to maintain the relationship at a distance, because even if it costs a lot more work, it’s worth it. Now it is understood that distance is what Cortazar wanted to explain to us with the Only we know how to be distantly together.

“Kiss
one by one
all the seconds that you stay in my bed
to have the clock on our side;
we make goodbyes
half around the world
so that even if we delay
“We want to go back.”

-Elvira Sastre-

There is no distance when two bodies want to continue looking at each other, as a lover would say: “when without seeing you I feel you here with me“. When the smile from the last time you saw that person helps you hold on to the memory, but only until the next time. There is no distance when, every time you are cold, you think of her hug and you can feel it. The distance is minimal when you believe you can overcome it.

When love overcomes cities, puddles, airports

It is true that kilometers can condition and harm many relationships and that nothing is as easy as it seems. It takes a lot of work to be far away and feel like you want to be close, but remember that the problem comes when the opposite happens. When you are close and feel that you are far away. Overcoming distance means strengthening ourselves, strengthening ourselves, becoming stronger together..

“I have invited a couple of drinks from a distance. A pair; “It’s not about annihilating it, it’s about entertaining it.”

-Nerea Delgado-

In conclusion, trust, sincerity and communication are key to maintaining love from a distance. In other words, will is not always enough, but it is essential: It takes a lot of effort, a big bottle of desire and, above all, feeling so that distance is not the excuse. of a relationship that has fallen by the wayside (Plumed, M., 2013)

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