I won’t let you feel alone

This letter is for you. So that you know that I will not allow you to feel alone again, that I will not allow anyone to walk over you, that I will not let you feel trampled on, belittled or even distanced from yourself. I won’t let you feel alone because simply by being you you deserve the same as everyone else. You deserve everything you’re worth.

Maybe nothing started the way you thought, maybe things went wrong when you thought something was changing, maybe you worked hard for something that was already broken and finished, maybe you didn’t see what others from the outside saw more easily or maybe you even screamed for help and no one heard it. . It doesn’t matter how it all started, it doesn’t matter what happened, now is now and it’s your turn, What do you want? Where are you going? What is your goal for today?

Not one more day will I allow you to stop seeing your face, not one more moment will you take your eyes off of you because you are the most important thing, and although sometimes you forget, here I am. I am with the little or the much I can do, but I will do it, I will not let you feel alone. Because, even if I don’t even know you, I know that my voice goes far, I know that my words can heal.

Do you know why I know this? Because I am the voice of everyone. Because we can all do it, because everyone can do their bit and help, in their own way, in their own way, with whatever they can.

Now you are all of us, so you never feel alone again.

I am also writing this letter to myself, in case I have felt alone like you, or even for the future, when we may feel abandoned. I write it because I refuse to let us continue to feel afraid.

I will not let them stop you, hit your pride, tear your self-esteem, damage your illusions, persecute and stain your safe path with fear.. I will not let it happen to you and I will not allow anyone around me to experience it like this.

I will not let you feel alone, I will not let you live in fear, I will be there to help you find your inner voice, to give you encouragement when it is lacking and, although I can only do it with words, I will encourage you to continue, to get up and continue.

With my help I will be able to do something, because you must know that you are not alone, that We can all help, that by joining hands we are stronger, bigger and more powerful. We can face it, we can say that we are here and that we are not going to move, we can stand up and look high.

Do you know the bystander effect?

Kitty Genovese was murdered in 1964 in her front door. For an hour and a half, her murderer was committing the act and some of her neighbors were, unfortunately, able to witness it. Some sources report that 38 of her neighbors were present from their homes, but did not notify the police or took too long to do so. Why is this happening?

This psychological phenomenon is called the bystander effect and shows that the help we give is inversely proportional to the number of people who witness the act. That is to say, The more people who share the situation, the more likely it is that it will take longer to ask for help.

This effect has been repeated in many other studies and they continue to obtain the same results, help is delayed the more people are present, which is also known as diffusion of responsibility.

That is why it is good to know that we are all important, that our help counts, that we cannot afford to wait for others to act, that We are responsible for what happens and we can act. Even if it’s just small gestures, every help is always important.

I can’t change the past but I can say that I am here and now, that you can count on me. I won’t let you feel alone anymore, I won’t let you give up and abandon yourself, I won’t let us count one less on the news, I won’t let this happen. Let’s join our voices so that none of us feels abandoned again.

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