I can change my destiny

Destiny is never marked, never depends on others and is never final.
The destination must always be decided in first person.

Decide where you want to be within a period of time to be able to set a route, you can always change your mind, your path, your strategy, but That destiny will never come if you don’t dare to wish for it. A defeatist attitude that believes that time will decide only makes you walk in circles around yourself. Everything will change, your physique, your environment… but you will not stop being in the same place as always, wanting to be part of a life that is not the one you have.

Don’t blame fate for not giving you what you deserve, life is not fair, at least for those who will never look for what they consider they deserve. Being a conformist can be your destiny, but only if you make sure it is so.

One day I read a phrase that said “if the ending is not pretty, it only means that it is not the end” and that is the key, to continue. We must learn from each moment, understand that if we have not achieved what we want, we must try another way, change our route or strategy, but never give up, that is the only failure we deserve. If you don’t fight for what you want you will never have it.

Drifting is not sailing

From nautical terminology, drift would be defined as “the deviation of the track (direction) of a vessel due to the effect of the current.” What does this mean? That if no one steers the boat, it is dragged by the current in any direction. The same happen with us, If we do not take the helm of our life, we will be letting ourselves be carried away by circumstances and our automatic way of behaving..

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To change the destiny of our existence, the first thing we have to do is learn to navigate. Hold the helm tightly and decide which direction we want to follow. Maybe we will reach port or maybe not, but without a doubt, If we take the reins of our life, the chosen direction will be closer to letting ourselves drift.. The famous phrase “let it be what it has to be” is nothing more than letting ourselves be carried away by the inertia of our behavior and external circumstances.

Instead, we can change it more easily than we think. Changing destiny only depends on changing our course. If we always walk on the same steps, we will arrive at the same place. However, If we start walking along new paths, it is most likely that we will find a new destination..

Dare to change destiny

Priorities change, and with it our actions and our decisions, but as long as you are being consistent with what you are looking for at that moment, living is worth it. It is good to try to change destiny with our actions. It is clear that there are many occasions in which we find ourselves with choices in which we have to decide, between bad and worse, at that moment we only have to postpone success to the future and consider that choice only delays reaching the destination that I now have in mind. mind.

Destiny should never be tied to something material, or to someone other than simply you. Of course it is viable to have the goal of living to achieve something, but what happens when you achieve it? We must allow ourselves to be ambitious, to continually want to achieve new things, but when it comes to material things, we always ambition more, and that never allows us to enjoy what we have in the present.

Happiness is easier to achieve when we establish the destination as a path and not as a goal

How to change destiny?

What path do you want to take in life? Destiny should not be tied to being a father, but to what kind of father do I want to be? To have a specific job but to what kind of worker do I want to be? Or to have friends. What makes us happy is feeling like I am the person I want to be. How to achieve, how to change destiny? It’s simple, coordinate your behavior with what you want to become, and sooner than you think you will be a person you feel comfortable with.

There is nothing more difficult than living without being proud of who you are.If you find yourself at this point in any area of your existence, take the reins of your life, you can change destiny. It’s simple, you just have to try it, no matter how complicated it may be and whether you feel uncomfortable, in exchange for getting closer to something that really matters to me.

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There are many things that are not under our decisions, our nationality, our sex, our race, diseases determined by our genetics, our family, our culture, our sexual orientation or our fears. But we can always choose how to live with all of this, this conditions us, but it never determines us. We always have something to contribute to destiny with our way of facing circumstances.