How to warm up a man? 30 tips told by a man

Do you want to master the art of seduction? I know, we all love to feel like geishas from time to time. That’s why today I bring you 30 spicy tips told by a man!

My colleague Lachlan Brown, creator of the Hackspirit site, shared with me his list of favorite tips, which I bring to you today so you can have new and good ideas.

Regardless of how long you’ve been with your guy, it’s always a good idea to keep things passionate.

A good level of intimacy and sex can do wonders for your relationship.

And that doesn’t just mean spending more time together, but sex and affection release hormones known as happiness hormones (oxytocin and dopamine) of which, quite frankly, no one can have too much of.

Perhaps your partner has fallen into routine and certain habits, or both of you are too tired at night because of work.

It could even be that you are meeting a guy and you want to make sure you drive him crazy from the start.

You can seduce your man in many different ways, some of which don’t even require physical contact.

Read on for 30 surefire ways to turn your man on, and you’ll be surprised how easy it is to get him in the mood.

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The tips that I share below are easy to do and require little or no preparation. As small as they are, they will have a big impact on your partner and are sure to turn them on, no matter where they are or what they are doing:

1) Do not wear underwear

Letting your man know that you’re going on a date without underwear can be a huge turn-on. Say it to him casually passing at the start of your next outing and it will be all he can think of.

The buildup and anticipation will be immense, and you can play around with this until you finally get some privacy together.

2) Use confidence to turn him on

There is nothing sexier than a confident woman.

But being confident doesn’t mean you have to come across as conceited or a know-it-all.

Show confidence in who you are, your likes and dislikes, and your career or hobbies.

Let him know that you are in control of your life and that you are sure of who he is.

A woman who has made up her mind and is at peace with who she is can be very attractive, and she will most likely find you irresistible.

3) Take advantage of eye contact

Eye contact is one of the most important signals to let someone know your intentions.

As the old saying goes, “the eyes are the door to the soul”.

You can turn your man on just by peering at him across the table, or looking at him with “bedroom eyes” while you’re in a crowded room.

Your shared and stolen looks will definitely leave him wanting more.

4) Wear something a little revealing…

If wearing revealing clothing isn’t really your thing, don’t worry. You can still easily turn a man on by just making small changes to your style.

For example, let your top slide off your shoulder so that your bra strap can be seen. A bare shoulder is always extremely sensual.

Or stretch out a bit so he can see your stomach and tummy. It will seem like it happened by accident, but he will definitely notice it.

5) Leave some things to your imagination

Following up on the point above, you want to give him a glimpse of the good stuff you have, but you don’t want to give it all away upfront.

Men enjoy using their imagination, it’s all part of their hunting process.

By revealing too much, you take away that element of surprise. So find ways to show your sensuality, without revealing it.

This can be wearing clothes that fit you perfectly, V-cut tops to show off some cleavage, and shorts/skirts/pants that accentuate your hips and butt.

If you consider it necessary, you can look for image consultants to help you make the most of your attributes.

6) Tease him

Joking around with your partner keeps the conversation upbeat and fun.

You can laugh with your partner, nudge him gently, and tease him (make sure you don’t bring up sensitive areas that may offend him).

Teasing playfully will not only enhance the bond between you, but it will also make him feel relaxed and turned on, especially if you include a bit of flirtation and double entendres in your teasing.

7) Have a great sense of humor

Having a sense of humor is extremely attractive, and any man will appreciate a woman who can be amused by a joke. If you want to drive your man crazy, make him laugh.

Laughter releases feel-good endorphins, and when you both feel good, you automatically increase the chances that he will feel more connected and want to be intimate with you.

8) Smile

Don’t underestimate the power of a smile.

At the right time, a lingering sexy smile while making eye contact can drive your man crazy.

Not only is it attractive, but it also sends him positive energy signals, which will make him feel more connected to you.

A lot can be communicated without words or contact, and depending on the type of smile you show your man, he’ll let him imagine and fantasize about these subtle facial expressions until you get home.

9) Role play

The role play can be as big or as simple as you want it to be.

Maybe you decide to go all out and get into character with a costume and accessories, or just start your role-play quietly over dinner, adding some spontaneity to your evening.

For example, pretending to be strangers meeting for the first time can add a touch of excitement to a normal conversation.

It will take you by surprise and the tension in that game will certainly put you in a good mood.

10) Flirt with him

This may seem like an obvious answer, but many of us forget to flirt after the first few dates.

As we feel more comfortable and secure with our partner, conversations become more serious and less exciting.

If you want to turn your man on without even touching him, transport yourself back to the first time you met, when any little thing could turn into a joke or seductive comment.

11) Treat him like a hero

Treating your man like a true hero will not only turn him on, but it will make you irresistible to him.

You do not believe me? I have mentioned it in many of my articles.

There is a new theory in the psychology of relationships that is generating a boom right now. It goes to the heart of what turns a man on and what he wants from a relationship with a woman.

They call it the hero instinct.

Men have a biological drive to maintain and protect women. It is built into them.

By making him feel like an everyday hero, you’ll unleash his protective instincts and the deeper side of his masculinity. And not only that, but you will trigger the deepest feelings of attraction for him.

I know it sounds a bit silly. Nowadays, women don’t need someone to rescue them. They don’t need a “hero” in their lives.

But here is the ironic truth. Men still need to be heroes. Because it is built into their DNA to seek relationships that allow them to feel like a protector.

And the few women who really realize this may have an advantage and use that power in the way they approach their relationships.

To learn exactly how to activate the hero instinct in your man, watch this free video by James Bauer.

He is an experienced relationship psychologist who first introduced the concept.

Some ideas really change the way we see things. And for romantic relationships, I think this is one of them.

Here is a link to the video again.

12) Wear red

Red is bold, bright, and eye-catching. It is the color of passion.

It stands out and is certainly one of the sexiest colors to wear when it comes to how to turn a man on.

PsychologyToday explored and confirmed the idea that red is seen as sexy.

Interestingly, they also found that “color influences our judgments automatically and mostly unconsciously.”

So men are not necessarily aware of what turns them on, but through society and what we are used to seeing in movies, red is naturally associated with sensuality.

And it makes sense; Red lingerie, red lipstick, red roses, and red wine are symbols of romance and sex, so it’s only natural for him to turn on if you add a bit of red to your look.

13) Create a sexy vibe

The atmosphere can make or break your chances of turning on your man. No matter how good you look, if you’re in a distracting, loud, and busy place, chances are he (and even you) will find it hard to focus on each other.

Instead, create a calm and relaxing atmosphere. If you’re inside, draw the curtains, light some candles to add a sexy glow to the room, and play some sexy music in the background.

If you’re out, perhaps on a date, find a more intimate corner at the bar, sit next to him, and make sure your attention is solely on him.

14) Talk about your fantasies and arousals

How to turn a man on is not just about him. Listening to your fantasies will be enough to excite and interest him.

Regardless of how long you’ve been with him, if you feel comfortable share some of your darkest and wildest dreams and let him know what really turns you on.

This will not only make it easier for him to visualize you in a sexual way, but it could also make some of your fantasies come true.

Here both win.

15) Write her a naughty note

You can send him a naughty text message. But there’s something very sexy about finding a note hidden in her coat pocket with a sexy handwritten message.

Perhaps the note mentions a good night when he’s done with work, or something more direct and to the point to excite him.

Either way, he’ll spend the whole day getting more and more excited to see you.

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Now that you know how to turn him on without even touching him, here are some more tips on how to physically turn him on and make him want you.

16) Pet him… pretty much anywhere

Aside from the most obvious place you’re probably thinking of, fondling a man’s chest, face, stomach, and other places can be very arousing.

The next time you’re out for dinner, a subtle touch to her inner thigh is sure to send you straight into a frenzy, and dessert will definitely be the last thing on your mind.

17) Let me touch you

When it comes to turning him on, you are your most powerful tool.

So, make sure you have nice and smooth skin. Exfoliate and hydrate your skin after you shower, and use a light (not overpowering) perfume to gently scent yourself.

Playing with different textures can be sexy and exciting, and a man can get turned on…