How to react to infidelity

Infidelities are one of the worst things that can happen in a couple. In this article we will suggest what to do if you have to face a situation like this.

Finding yourself in the situation of reacting to infidelity is a really painful event for a couple. When it happens, we feel that the trust and respect we have for that person we love so much crumbles in a matter of seconds. We no longer feel special and we believe that we are our boyfriend’s “second course”, both emotionally and sexually.

”Those who are unfaithful know the pleasures of love; “It is the faithful who knows the tragedies of love.”

-Oscar Wilde-

Have you just suffered infidelity and don’t know how to deal with this delicate situation since you care about your partner? Well The first thing you have to do is calm down, and don’t take it at the first opportunity with your partner because that will make you feel worse in the long run.

Therefore, below We will give you some advice to know what to do and how to deal with infidelity in the best possible way.

Does he really love us?

Every couple is a world. And because of that, It is difficult to say with complete certainty that a partner does not love us after having a slip. This is something that your heart will have to tell you. Even so, if you think that your partner has already had strange behavior with you (you didn’t stay as much, he no longer shows much interest in you, he doesn’t kiss you, etc…) this may indicate that he no longer feels the same way and hence he has been unfaithful

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In this situation, it is best to cut corners., end the relationship and each one on their own. If you really feel like you can get it back, then go ahead. But is it really worth fighting for someone who doesn’t love you? I do not think so.

“We are easily deceived by those we love.”

-Moliere-

Reacting to infidelity: communication first and foremost

Let’s put ourselves in the situation where you only have suspicions that your romantic partner is unfaithful. Why don’t you tell them openly and try to solve it? People understand each other by talking, and even more so in a couple. Maybe this way you will arrive at the reason why your partner is unfaithful to you..

Not that there is much justification in most cases. But as Ortega y Gasset said “I am myself and my circumstances”. That is to say, You have to get to the root of the matter and everything that surrounds it to really know your partner’s intentions.. Not everything happens just because and it is information that will help you know what to do in the event of infidelity.

The possibility of resuming the relationship

This is the eternal question that people ask themselves. Can I truly get my partner back after infidelity? To return or not always depends on the person. As is normal, when someone is “cheated” you feel like all your trust in the other party falls dramatically. And partly it is normal.

We can forgive, yes. But is it possible to continue living with the uncertainty that our boyfriend/girlfriend could be unfaithful to us again? That is to say, if he has already done it once, she can do it perfectly a second time… Achieving it will sometimes be very difficult. AND Without trust, the couple is destined to fail.

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As you have seen, On many occasions it is very difficult to love each other in the same way again after a mistake. in the form of infidelity. It is difficult to advise what to do and how to react to infidelity.

Here It will be you yourselves who have to put the situation on a balance and decide if it is really worth continuing with a person who has disappointed you, or if you prefer to move on and wait for someone else who is really worth it, respects you and, above all, loves you as you really are.