How to know when a man wants to repeat after one night?

You weren’t planning on sleeping with him. But it just happened. You let yourself be carried away by the moment and it happened.

Maybe there was alcohol involved. He was attracted to you and you felt the same.

Before you knew it, one thing led to another.

And just like that, you ended up having a one-night stand.

But to you, it felt like so much more than just sex.

There was a connection, wasn’t there? Or were you the only one who felt it? You don’t really know…

Trust me I’ve been there. Sure there are women who can have something casual and forget about the night before without problems.

But if you’re like me, that won’t happen. You will stay thinking about him waiting for him to appear with a message.

So that you stop thinking about the matter, I have prepared this article. So you can identify when a man wants to repeat after a night with you.

If none of these signs apply to you, I’m sorry to be the one to tell you: he’s not the one.

8 signs to know if he likes you and if he wants to repeat with you after a one-night stand

1) He will make plans with you

Let’s keep things simple here, if a guy is interested in you, he will go out of his way to see you again.

So simple it hurts.

A one night stand is a perfect opportunity for both of you to go your separate ways and never see each other again.

So if he contacts you again to see you it is because you have interested him.

If you do not, except in very special cases, it is most likely that you have already satisfied your wish. Don’t go looking for all those possible reasons why he might want to see you but he won’t text you. It is not what is happening.

If he wants to see you again and repeat with you, he will write to you. Spot.

2) He writes to you

One-night stands have earned their name for what they are: a one-night stand.

If he texts you the next day, it has already turned into something else. And you have taken the first step.

If it was one night and nothing more, you can expect silence the next day.

Or, at the most, a text in the morning thanking him for the night before, ouch.

3) Add you on social networks

This is a good sign but you have to be careful. Maybe he just wants to keep your contact for some other crazy night.

But without a doubt, if he adds you on Instagram or Facebook, there was something about you that he liked. Maybe she had too much fun or she just found you charming.

He wants to connect and find out more about you.

Being friends on social media is a great way to gauge the relationship if you decide to move on.

4) tells you

Although not for the most part, there are guys who can be direct when it comes to feelings.

He may suddenly tell you that he is interested and wants to see you again. We like it when they are direct.

He won’t make you think twice about how he feels about you. There are men who love mind games but if you are lucky it will not be your case.

If you have been dating a lot, you will know that this is something to value. When things flow naturally and without complications, take advantage of it.

Conversely, if he avoids the subject and rushes out the door the next morning, you can be sure he’s done and ready to move on, separately.

5) He makes you breakfast

Is there something we love more? When the man wakes up before you do and gets out of bed to make you breakfast.

This is the type of guy who could think of something serious. You have awakened something in him.

A guy is not going to waste his efforts on someone he is not interested in.

If he is not interested in a relationship, then he will be the first to tell you that he has plans and disappear.

6) You have activated his hero instinct

To realize when a guy wants to repeat with you after one night, there are certain behaviors that show that he likes you.

Did he write to you to make sure you got there safely? Did she try to help you in any way? Wanted to pay for your Uber ride home?

These are all small signs that you have activated his hero instinct.

This concept from psychology explains why men develop romantic feelings for some women, even if they have just met her.

Simply put, men want to be an everyday hero to the woman they care about. They want to step up to her and help her whenever they can.

Sure it sounds a bit silly in the age we live in. But this is so deeply embedded in their biology, they can’t help it. If he shows symptoms of hero instinct with you, it’s because you’ve hooked him.

7) His body language tells you

Personally, I think actions count more than words.

Pay close attention to the way he acts around you. His body language will clearly tell you if he wants to see you again or not.

Did he hold you all night after sex? Does she blush in front of you? Does she make eye contact when she talks to you? Always smiling?

These signs suggest that he is interested in you. I mean, he can’t take his eyes off you!

8) The conversation flows

While a one-night stand is mostly about sex, sometimes there can be something more to it.

Perhaps after a steamy session, you’ll spend the rest of the night talking about each other.

He not only listens, but also shares intimate stories with you.

If he’s happy to stay up talking, it’s because he’s seen something in you.

It is also important to pay attention to the type of questions he asks you. If he’s delving into your family, siblings, and who you are as a person, it’s because he wants to get to know you.

If it’s general questions about what you’re doing, it’s probably just being polite.

Where do we go now?

At the end of the day, there are three main things that could happen:

The way to be friends with benefits

You may have found out through these signs that this guy is interested in you.

But maybe, for you, he’s okay as a sexual partner because you don’t feel anything else.

Was the sex good? Really good? Has it left you wanting more?

You may not be looking for a relationship with him and that’s okay too.

You might be surprised to find out that he feels the exact same way.

It’s always a good idea to be upfront and honest with him. It helps to make sure you’re both on the same page with this.

The good thing is that this conversation is easy to have with a one night stand.

Relax, be casual, and be honest.

Remember, you are contributing as much to this relationship as he is, so value yourself. Both have a lot to offer and to take advantage of their exchange.

How to get over a one night stand

Unfortunately it is a possibility that you liked him for more, but that he does not look for the same.

This is also fine and normal. Think of all the guys you didn’t like once, it happens.

So after going over the signs above, it may be more obvious than ever that this guy is not all that into you.

If you’re having a hard time getting over him and the whole one-night-girl thing, here are some ways to help you move on:

1) Delete, delete, delete

You already know he doesn’t like you, it’s time to remove him from everywhere.

Remove his phone number, remove him from Facebook/Instagram/TikTok and anywhere else you can find him.

It’s so much easier to move on when you don’t see it every day. You also know that it will not bring you anything.

Take care and put yourself first. There are a thousand opportunities outside to stay thinking about someone who doesn’t value you.

2) Pamper yourself

Taking care of ourselves is one of those things that should always be a priority but sometimes we forget.

So it’s time for you to stop and think about what you need to be well. It can be going for a bike ride along the river or the boulevard, having a coffee in your favorite place, attending your art class.

Connect with yourself, get together with friends and do what you need to be well. You know that well-being comes from within and not from a guy you’ve come across.

So with your mind away from that night and that boy, you will see that in time it will dissolve on its own. Learn to distract yourself in a positive way and focus on what is good for you.

3) Meet other people

Life is full of interesting people. It is not necessary that you go out in search of the ideal boy. You can enjoy any friendly exchange, I assure you.

Just visit environments where you feel comfortable. Meet new people, surprise yourself with their stories and entertain them with yours. Laugh and relax.

We attract the energy that we are, so the best thing you can do is dedicate yourself and be happy. That special someone will show up at the right time. You don’t really need anything, because you are already complete.

How to go from a one night stand to something more serious

You may be looking for a relationship and anxious to see if he feels the same way.

You’ve read the signs and you’re pretty sure he likes you, so you have two options:

Wait for him to take the next step Take the initiative

If you are one of those more daring women, you will have no problem being the one to write to him with an interesting proposal.

Cheer up with some fun message. Be confident and stay open to see what happens.

To be sure that this can be something more, you could propose something during the day, an afternoon in a park or place in nature. If he accepts it will be the first step.

From now on be yourself and if you are meant to be together he will see how special you are.

In summary

Sometimes emotions get in the way of something that was supposed to be a one night stand.

It’s no secret that women are the most emotional species.

In fact, developing feelings after a one-night stand is completely normal. And it’s not just reserved for women!

A friend recently made a statement to me that frankly surprised me.

He said that many men need to sleep with someone to see if they have a connection with that person.

Unlike women who often need to get to know that special guy better with the same goal.

Men care about only one thing…and feelings can develop as a result.

The truth is that at the end of the day it may be that he likes you for something else or not, and sometimes you won’t know until you sleep with him.

“I had a one-night stand and I feel guilty”

This is another common emotion that arises from a one night stand.

In fact, there have been studies about it. Naturally, they have shown that women are more likely to feel guilty after having a one-night stand. There are no surprises!

Why do guys seem to be able to live in the moment and move on so much more easily?

According to one of the study authors, Professor Leif Edward Ottesen Kennair, there are several reasons why women might feel bad:

There was no sexual satisfaction. Fear of pregnancy. Fear of STIs. Concern of generating a bad reputation.

These are all valid concerns, but worrying about it after the fait accompli doesn’t make much sense. What’s done is done and it’s time to let go and move on…