How to know if a man is a womanizer, 25 signs that will surprise you

Worried that you like a guy and think he might be a womanizer?

Or worse, are you already dating him and you feel like you can’t be calm?

You are clear that you like him, but you don’t know if he will commit or even if you want him to.

And the most worrying?

That womanizers are usually charming and attractive.

And you hate the idea of ​​being another number on his list of conquests.

But before making a final decision on how to consider this guy, you should know the signs that will confirm or not if he is a womanizer.

In the end, there’s a fine line between a guy who’s just nice to everyone.

And a guy who appears to be nice on the surface, but in reality he is dedicated to manipulating women to get them into bed.

I’m sure you would like to know the difference. I am right?

Perfect then, because here we go.

Signs to know if a man is an inveterate womanizer.

1) Does not show any emotion

Have you ever gone out with a guy and wondered, what the hell is this guy feeling?

The truth is that men have more difficulties than women when it comes to showing their emotions.

But if everything he says sounds fake or calculated to you – you know, he gives you that fake smile that’s impossible to believe – then you’re dealing with a ladies’ man.

You see, when a man goes from girl to girl and sleeping with someone different every weekend.

He just can’t open up emotionally with anyone.

His only objective is to end the night together, and if he opens up emotionally with you, he will compromise all his conquest.

He thinks if they get into the emotional realm it might be great for the talk, but it won’t add any benefit to physical attraction.

It is very easy for men to separate sex from their emotions.

Although you can’t imagine it, because women are completely different.

According to relationship expert David Bennet, women’s brains tend to have more overall connectivity.

Which means that the emotions they experience in one task affect other facets of their life.

Men’s brains are not as interconnected and because of this they can separate their feelings from their behaviors.

So he won’t get caught up in a commitment, if he can keep achieving his goal each night.

At the end of the day, it seems that this boy does not feel emotions. Or the only thing he has shown you is a fake smile.

So I’m sorry to tell you, he could be a womanizer who just wants to get you into bed.

2) He is too confident

If your man is super confident in himself, he considers himself a winner in everything. And you realize that he feels attractive, interesting and almost perfect, take care.

First, if he crosses the line, to the point of being arrogant, I don’t think you’ll enjoy that personality for long.

A self-confident person is beautiful and attractive, but when there is an excess of ego, we are already talking about another matter and surely they have many things to work on.

If he behaves like an Adonis wanting you to idolize him, be careful because you could be facing a womanizer.

He just wants to add conquests to feed his ego.

3) Lead that Don Juan lifestyle

You know what I mean.

Are you an accountant who spends nights watching Netflix?

Or is it the bartender or the musician who goes out almost every night to party?

It is important to recognize that most womanizers lead a lifestyle that allows them to meet countless women all the time.

In fact, even a businessman who travels constantly, going from conquest to conquest.

Because he’s never in one place long enough to commit.

And it may be that for them it is simply what they are looking for.

So, if your guy is handsome, nice, and his profession exposes him to a large number of women, then there is always an opportunity for him to have some extra fun.

I’m not saying that all bartenders or musicians are womanizers, it’s not the idea.

But yes, it is a group with more probabilities than, for example, accountants.

So, if your boy has a profession of this style, with a lot of exposure to jokes.

And it also has several of the characteristics that I mention in this article, you must be careful.

4) It is charming

Think about it for a minute. When you first met this guy, did he say all the right things, did he make you laugh non-stop and win you over with every word?

You may not like what I have to tell you. But if he charmed you from the first minute with the right phrases from him, and he got your phone without any effort, it is very likely that he is facing a womanizer.

Because?

Well, because conquest is an art that is learned. Nobody is born knowing how to seduce and therefore if you notice that they know how to do it very well, it is because they have had a lot of practice.

Maybe he can change, or maybe he’s decided it’s time to stop going from woman to woman.

I’m going to be honest with you. The odds that it’s because of you that he commits, when he hasn’t with the previous 100, are slim.

I may also be wrong, which is why you have to watch the next signs to be sure.

5) He acts different when he is with his friends

Has it happened to you from being with a boy who is super affectionate and demonstrative, but suddenly when a friend shows up he transforms?

It is as if he had been taken in a spaceship and his personality had been changed from one moment to the next.

This is because he does not want to lose his status as a gallant, extrovert and social. He can’t let his guard down and show that he really is a person with feelings. That would go against his entire strategy.

In addition, if he considers you as one of the others, he will not worry about being attentive to you, or paying attention to you outside the room.

If he acts like you don’t exist when he’s around other people, you’ll be pretty sure he’s a ladies’ man.

6) All he wants is sex

This should be pretty obvious.

If this guy is only interested in having sex, and he can’t hold a conversation with you for more than 5 minutes.

Then it is very likely that he is a womanizer.

And how can you know if his only intention is sex?

Think about it. When does she text you to see each other? Only on Friday nights?

Or does he just want to see you at night, because he knows that means alcohol and the possibility of ending up flat?

Basically, if he only wants to see you at times where anything could lead to sex, I’m sorry to be the one to make you see it, but chances are he’s a womanizer.

Tell him that you want to have a coffee one day, go out for lunch and see how he responds.

If he has no intention of seeing you during the day and for a change, talking to you and getting to know each other a bit, then you are facing a womanizer.

7) Does not introduce you to family or friends

We agree that introducing our parents and friends to a partner is a big step, right?

Well, if they’ve been seeing each other for a while, but you don’t have the slightest indication that he wants to introduce you to his circle, then clearly he is not interested in anything serious.

And what’s worse, he probably doesn’t even want you to cross paths with his friends, who know all about his Casanova history.

Who knows what they might tell you!

And he knows that if you find out all his stories, you won’t want to see him for much longer.

And that too, pay attention to how secretive he is about his private life.

If you feel like he’s keeping a lot of secrets, be careful.

You may be dating several girls at the same time, and you don’t want to be found out.

Or he’s just looking for sex and doesn’t want to get his emotions involved with you.

8) He has many friends

This will definitely test you. And also here you must put your cunning into play.

It is normal for a man to have female friends, but if there are too many of them, and they write to him at all hours and on any day, it is a sign that he could be a womanizer.

If she’s texting all the time, you see her photos being commented on all the time, these girls may be more than just friends.

9) He has cheated on his ex-girlfriends

Even though he’s been a gentleman to you ever since they met.

If he’s confessed to any cheating behavior in the past with his other partners, then obviously you need to be cautious.

At this point, it is up to you to decide if you think it has changed or not.

It’s certainly very difficult trying to get over something like that, but if you can’t trust him, then there’s little chance of building a real relationship.

After all, trust is the foundation for any healthy relationship.

If it is a question of defining whether this boy is a womanizer, what you need is to sit down, talk and ask yourself if what he offers you is what you need.

We all have different needs when it comes to relationships, but there are 3 things that cannot go wrong:

Trust Respect
Security

There are no excuses.

If he fails in any of these points, he will not be the man you thought.

10) He is a false alpha male

A womanizer is someone who tries to be the leader of the pack, but ends up only at the back of the room.

He wants to be the center of attention and is aggressive, because otherwise he doesn’t get much.

A true alpha is a gentleman, a man who treats women well. He wants to find his soul mate and be happy. He doesn’t try to go all over the Casanova.

Also, he treats everyone with respect and doesn’t flirt with every woman he comes across.

You will know that he is a false alpha simply by how he tries to impress you all the time, and hide his insecurities.

I assume you know the type.

Those people who try to highlight by marking the defects of others.

He will speak well of himself and may even exaggerate his anecdotes in order to show how good he is.

And he may even try to seduce you with a pick-up line he read on a blog, from some self-proclaimed pick-up artist.

I know, it sounds pathetic, but it’s the way he’s learned to hide his insecurities and pounce on vulnerable women.

Keep in mind that womanizers are largely insecure, and picking up many women is their way of hiding their insecurities.

11) It goes too far with flattery

This could be your weak point. The truth is that we all like when they give us a compliment. It’s nice to be valued and to be flattered.

But be careful because this is a great strategy of womanizers, if they give you too many compliments, which are also very general, they begin to suspect. Could they be suitable for all the girls at the party too?

It’s one thing when you’ve known each other for a while, and he compliments you on something specific about you.

But if this guy compliments you every two minutes and even flatters something you feel insecure about, he’s a true Don Juan, only looking for your weak points to win you over.

Be careful if he also calls you affectionate names too quickly, such as honey, baby, love.

If it is impossible for you to feel things for someone in such a short time after meeting him, why would you believe that it is different for him?

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