How does a married man act when he likes another woman?: 15 signs

Knowing if a married man is attracted to you can seem like a difficult task.

However, although men are complicated to understand, it is possible.

You might think that being married will make him more subtle, and that may be true. But there are certain things that he will not be able to hide and will give you clarity to know if he really likes you.

In this article, I will tell you about 15 ways a married man will act when he is attracted to another woman.

In the end you will have to decide for yourself (but well informed) if he is attracted to you or not.

So what are the signs?

15 Ways A Married Man Acts When He Likes Another Woman

1) It becomes charming

One way to tell if a married man is attracted to you is to gauge how seductive he is around you.

If you notice him turning on his charm every time you’re around, that’s a pretty obvious sign.

Does he seem to smile around you a lot, lean in closer? Or maybe when he realizes you’re in the room, he fixes his hair, straightens his shirt, etc.

These are all key signs that you are turning on the charm.

2) He feels more comfortable when it’s just the two of you

When it’s just the two of you, a married man will feel more comfortable expressing himself especially about how he really feels.

He won’t feel the pressure of prying eyes while showing interest in you.

In other words, there’s a lot less to worry about when you’re alone.

You don’t have to worry about rumors or judicious people wondering why a married man is talking to another woman.

Here I also leave you the signs that you are sexually attracted to him.

3) Find excuses to be close to you

Whether it’s rushing to sit next to you or just leaning in while you talk.

A married man who is attracted to you will find any and all excuses to get close to you.

Of course, if it makes you uncomfortable in any way, don’t be afraid to say something, avoid it, or take whatever steps are necessary to end the situation.

In social settings, do you always notice him coming up to you? Do you notice that he looks at you when you are doing something else?

He may be fine talking to other people from a distance, but when he talks to you, he wants to be close.

4) Teasing and flirting

When a married man is attracted to another woman, he will not be able to avoid joking with her. And incidentally flirt for a while.

He may be a bit awkward, or he may be shy about it, but you may notice a strong desire to act on his attraction.

Since you’re married, it’s unlikely that you’ve spent a lot of time seducing and trying to attract the interest of another woman (unless, of course, you’re a ladies’ man).

On many occasions, a married man who is attracted to another woman will act very similarly to an unmarried man.

There may be small differences, but overall, there will be a lot of similarities.

In other words, he’s going to flirt with you if he’s attracted to you.

He’ll be playful and maybe even make a bit of an inappropriate comment. He will touch that fine line trying to make you blush, feel beautiful and intrigued with him.

He is trying to get your attention and will act accordingly.

5) Check their body language

The body language a guy displays will give you a good clue as to how he is feeling.

In fact, body language is an indicator of many things, and if you learn to read it, you will know better how to communicate with people.

Here are some body language clues when someone is interested in you:

It will come closer when you talk.

Their feet will always be pointing towards you.

He may not be able to help but smile every time you speak.

He will make a lot of eye contact. Or he’ll look away, embarrassed.

He might put his hand on your arm or touch your knee.

By carefully watching his body language, you will be able to gather enough information to figure out whether or not he is attracted to you.

And here’s the thing: it doesn’t matter if he’s married or not, his body language will speak for him subconsciously. Desire will always show in his body.

6) He is interested in your love life

If a married man asks you about your love life, it could be because he is interested in you.

He might want to find out if you’re in love, been single a long time, heartbroken, or something else.

Why else would he want to know, if not because he’s attracted to you?

He may not be available, but that doesn’t stop him from fantasizing and imagining a relationship with you.

Of course, you could be sociable and looking for a good conversation. You will have to observe several signs to be able to draw accurate conclusions.

The real question is, what are you going to do if you know he likes you?

Maybe you like him too. Here is an article on the consequences of dating a married man that will help you.

7) He talks about his wife with you

Married men fit into two different categories when it comes to their wives.

There is the man who talks freely about his wife and the man who doesn’t even mention her.

The first option is when a married man does talk to you about his wife.

In that case, it could be because you are not happy with your marriage.

Are you making it clear that you would like things to be different, that you feel isolated and lost?

You might be interested in some form of extramarital emotional support.

And, because he is attracted to you, he may be looking for that in you.

Or it could be different. He might want to leave his wife, and falling in love with another woman is a perfect excuse (in his mind) to do so.

He could also talk about his wife in a positive way and still be attracted to you.

It could be that he is really happy in his marriage, but is still interested in something else. And I may even tell you openly, believe me, this happens.

He may be looking for a way to show you that he is capable of a healthy relationship.

That can be very exciting for some women.

8) He doesn’t talk about his wife with you

Then there is the other type of man, the one who would prefer not to talk about his wife, if possible.

Maybe there is a disparity between you and his friends; he talks about her with her friends, but he never does with you.

That is a great sign that he is attracted to you. If you think that he is avoiding the subject of his marriage when he is around you, it could indicate the fact that he is attracted to you.

Be careful though, it’s hard to get into an adventure and you never know how it will end.

In all likelihood, it will not end well.

However, there could be a really complicated story behind the whole thing, and he’s hesitant to bring it up because he doesn’t want to ruin his chances with you, or disappoint you in any way.

There really is a lot going on when a man doesn’t mention his wife at all, but it’s clearly a sign that he’s interested in you.

9) He gives you gifts

Does he invite you to lunch, or maybe just a coffee?

This could be a clue to help you figure out his feelings for you.

Maybe he has even brought you a gift. It can be from something very simple to an elaborate gift.

Maybe it’s flowers, something you mentioned you needed, or a simple card. In any case, the point is not the gift, it is the gesture.

The fact that he specifically thought of you is what makes the difference.

He, of all the people in the world, had you in mind when he decided to buy you something, get you something or do something to you.

You must be attentive to his actions, they could dignify that he is attracted to you.

Here are some other ways to tell if a guy likes you, even if he’s trying to hide it.

10) Change their plans for you

Whether it’s to satisfy your needs or simply as an excuse to spend more time with you, if a married man isn’t afraid to change his plans for you, it’s a very good sign that he’s attracted to you.

Maybe he’ll offer to drive you home at the end of the day.

Or, maybe your friend cancels at the last minute and you don’t have anyone to accompany you to a concert or a wedding or whatever. If, to save you, he offers to go with you, it could be because he is attracted to you.

Maybe you need a ride home because your car doesn’t work, or you need a last-minute ride to the airport.

Whatever his plans, he’s not afraid to change them in an effort to spend more time with you.

11) Your acts of service

Acts of service are a great love language for many men.

If he can do something for you, solve a problem or make your life easier, he will be happy to do it.

It is a way of showing your value, your ability to care for you and support you. It is a biological necessity, in fact, an instinct that is part of the makeup of almost all men.

These acts of service can be anything from offering to change your car’s oil to fixing a pipe in your house.

They could also be something less obvious. For example, he could offer to buy you a coffee or something you need.

This is directly associated with a concept that we have mentioned a lot in our articles due to its importance. This is the “hero instinct.”

James Bauer, psychologist and relationship expert, was the one who first coined this term. He reveals the simple things that trigger this natural male instinct and show that he really likes you.

If you want to learn more about hero instinct and how to activate it, check out this great free video by James Bauer. You will be surprised how powerful his theories are and how something so simple can be so revealing.

12) Act differently around you

It may be subtle at first, or you may not even notice it right away.

However, as you pay more attention to him and his actions, you may start to notice that he acts differently around you.

The only reason for this is because he might be really attracted to you.

Maybe he gets nervous, or maybe more seductive. It’s not so much about how he acts and it’s about the fact that he behaves differently with you when you’re around.

Guys have a hard time (sometimes) being themselves around a woman they really like.

This can be accentuated even more when it comes to a man who is already married.

13) He makes jokes about liking you

Sometimes the answer to the question you are looking for is closer than you think.

In this case, he could tell you exactly how he feels, without telling you anything directly.

How is that?

As with most people, sometimes we can only speak our truth through humor, jokes, or sarcasm.

So maybe this married man has made some jokes lately about liking you or being in a relationship with you.

He could have made some kind of sly comment about them being together, but he put it in a funny, sarcastic, or joking way.

The fact that he made a comment of any kind about liking you points to an inner truth.

The truth is that he has thought of you that way.

To make it clear: if a man has made a comment, already…