How can Cancer and Gemini deal with differences?

Cancer and Gemini They have very similar characteristics and many very different ones. This creates the possibility for them to have a balanced and constructive relationship, if they know how to deal with aspects of the other’s personality that can hurt them deeply.

Today I need to hug you
To smell your clean clothes
To forget my yearnings and sleep in peace
Today I need to hear any word from you
Any exaggerated phrase that makes me feel joy, in being alive
Today I need to have a coffee, listening to you sigh
Telling me that I’m the cause of your insomnia
That I do everything wrong always, always yeah

as in music “Just today”from Jota Quest, Gemini’s restlessness forces him to go out there exploring the world, but he needs to return to the welcoming arms of loving Cancer.

How Cancer can deal with Gemini’s detachment and all the feeling of abandonment that this native causes him and how Gemini can deal with Cancer’s possessiveness is what we are going to show you in this article.

Cancer matches Gemini?

Cancer and Gemini are good conversationalists. The crab has an extraordinary ability to remember details of a story and tell it sensitively. With his imagination and humor, he manages to keep a crowd enthralled with his speech.

Gemini is also like that: he speaks with intelligence and charm and even manages to do card tricks with his hands to give the audience an extra attraction.

Cancer and Gemini also share a love of photography and sudden mood swings. Cancer leaves the pink of feelings and descends into the dark depths of depression in seconds. Gemini flies from bright yellow joy to the blue of despair.

Both are also dreamers and experts in the art of getting publicity. Cancer tries to disguise that he doesn’t care, but he loves being the center of attention.

Both are imaginative, often laughing in public and crying alone. With so many traits in common, it’s clear that Cancer gets along well with Gemini.

But there are also some important differences by which it becomes easy to tell them apart.

Differences between Cancer and Gemini

Gemini likes to fly with the wind, flap their wings, feel the breeze. Cancer already prefers to crawl carefully close to the sea, under the moonlight.

Gemini is a mutable sign. He enjoys running around, talking about his ideas, dreams and projects, leading a team and directing the show of life.

Cancer is cardinal. He doesn’t like to talk about his plans – even less about his secrets. He likes to command, but discreetly.

Gemini feels they have a lot to learn from the way Cancer likes to take care of people, is cautious and secretive. The crab has an enviable ability to sit and wait with all the patience in the world.

Furthermore, he remains focused on a goal long enough to achieve it.

On the other hand, Gemini has everything the Cancerian wants: courage to take flight and see the world. It is because they understand Gemini that the Cancer can tolerate Gemini’s restlessness well.

The native person of the Gemini sign is not inclined to get attached. She lets go of everything very quickly, be it relationship, family, job, friendship or business. Sometimes even too soon.

However, the balance between differences and similarities between Cancer and Gemini is balanced so that Cancer with Gemini works out.

Cancer is a sensitive and impressionable person and Gemini knows very well how to speak kindly. Cancer can make Gemini clear their eyes, reflect and remember the things that really matter.

Relationship between Cancer and Gemini

Cancer woman with Gemini man

Gemini has the power to analyze people quickly, with a sure view. Cancer, on the other hand, is extremely perceptive about human nature.

Despite this gift of unraveling the secret behind people’s bands, Cancer and Gemini have difficulty putting together the puzzle that forms the other. There’s always a part missing.

The Cancer woman is able to exert a strong fascination on the Gemini man precisely because he never knows what she is thinking.

And the Gemini has something that bothers the Cancer woman a lot: she never knows what he really wants.

The Cancer native, when injured, manages to intrigue the Gemini even more, because she closes in, taking refuge in her hard crab shell.

This Cancerian way of dealing with pain leaves the Gemini man frustrated and feeling totally powerless.

Cancer and Gemini in Love

The Cancer woman, if she could, would give the Moon to the Gemini. When she is in love, this native values, protects and fills the beloved man with affection and pampering.

The Cancer woman will make delicious food for the Gemini native, be kind to him and try to distract him with her sense of humor.

The problem is that she perceives the restlessness of Gemini and reaches a point where she doesn’t know what to juggle anymore to satisfy the always dissatisfied Gemini. How can you please a man who constantly changes his recipe for happiness?

Whenever the Cancer woman believes she has found what he wants, he seems to change his mind and brings this woman to tears.

The truth is, she will never find out what the Gemini really wants because even he doesn’t know.

On the Gemini side, he can’t understand the Cancer woman’s need to hold on to things. The way she saves her Burger King coupons makes it look like she’s been through a horrible famine.

What he doesn’t know is that for Cancer an interplanetary war is always a possibility. Anything is possible and she wants to be prepared even for the impossible.

She doesn’t like to throw anything away, not even her 15-year-old prom dress and even less her friendships and bonds.

The casual way in which Gemini dismisses human relationships comes to bother and confuse the Cancer woman. It’s not the usefulness of any relationship that matters to her, but familiarity and security.

The Cancerian doesn’t discard anything, not even worn out loves. She always thinks they can be fixed, either by patching or trimming edges. This is one of the most important lessons that this woman’s heart can teach the Gemini mind.

Gemini woman with Cancer man

Cancerians live in their imagination, with their emotions and sensations. He loves the past, so he likes to read stories about the glorious victories of the Byzantine Empire or Medieval Times.

But he views the past with romanticism – both world history and his own past. He doesn’t like to be reminded that heroes too have had their moments of failure and defeat.

The Cancer man is a sentimental gentleman, who fights great battles and returns to claim his lady’s love.

The Gemini woman is often moved by the creative romantic scenes created by Cancer.

But she needs to be aware that, as she gives her hand to this gentleman, he can hold it tightly and never let go of it again – which is perhaps a terrifying thing for Gemini.

Cancer possessiveness causes a certain amount of conflict when it stumbles upon the Gemini love of freedom.

For his part, Cancer can have his heart broken when he realizes that the Gemini woman is actually two: the one who wants to snuggle happily next to him in his castle and the one who wants to walk alone, happy and bouncy around the world.

But, after all, does Cancer with Gemini work?

Cancer and Gemini can even have a happy ending, as a Cancer man is a delicious comfort for a Gemini woman. No one can be more tender, kind and understanding than him.

However, for this to happen, Cancer needs to be aware that the Gemini native needs and will wander around, even if the Cancerian pouts.

But there’s no reason to worry: Gemini always comes back and Cancer can’t help but forgive her.

It will take practice and devotion on both sides for Cancer to get along well with Gemini.

Cancer and Gemini in bed

Gemini’s affectionate tenderness and imagination balance perfectly in bed with Cancer’s delicate touch and sensitive sexual nature.

When they express their love in a physical way, Cancer and Gemini even find the missing piece in the puzzle of this relationship.

It all starts with a dreamy, fast and intense Cancer and Gemini kiss. These two signs enjoy diving into each other’s desire, fascinated by seeing the stars, even in a closed room and with excitement soaring at all times.

They know that in the sexual act there is a whole universe to be explored and appreciated.

Want to see other combinations for your sign? See “Sign Compatibility”.