He just wants to use you: 5 signs that the guy doesn’t want to know something serious

Knowing how to make commitments is a virtue for few. However, often, it is not a lack of interest or neglect, but a psychological difficulty. In modern times, it is increasingly common to have men who are real big boys, dependent on their mothers and fearful. Here are some of the very clear indications that he has this commitment problem, and don’t want anything serious:

Signs He’s Rolling You Up

1. He never mentions his ex-girlfriends.

Unless he’s very shy or introverted, you’d think he’s amassed at least a few ex-girlfriends. Of course, it would be in bad taste to bring them back all the time, but never mentioning past relationships can also be suspicious.

2. He travels a lot

He lives the kind of life that even if he wanted to, it would be impossible for him to take on a relationship. Maybe he’s a jet-setter, or is just always visiting friends and relatives out of state, or has the kind of job where he’s never in your town.

3. He finds excuses to avoid doing anything that could be considered a typical date.

That is, he only meets you to have sex. Dinner, if not for delivery or takeout, is out of the question. See a movie that isn’t on Netflix, don’t even think about it.

4. He avoids any serious program, which could be considered a milestone in the relationship.

He doesn’t want to meet up with his parents or friends, he’ll never leave a toothbrush at your house or visit you at work. He doesn’t want to do anything that might make the relationship look like it’s evolving, because in his mind, there’s no relationship.

5. He’s adorable when you’re around and cold when you’re not.

He’s the king of mixed signals: he pops up whenever you want to hang out, but when you try to get in touch with him, you’ve got a word or two for an answer, or maybe a few half-assed emojis.

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