Everyday facts that are not worth worrying about

Almost no one can remain unperturbed in irritating situations. A French sociologist and author of several books on relationships Jean-Claude Kaufmann finds it useful to complain in some cases. According to him, this helps the person to exercise their “ego” and show their limits in relation to the other. However, there are many contexts that are not worth a single forehead wrinkle.

At the awesome.club Let’s talk about 7 unpleasant situations that can easily make you angry and explain why there is no point in it.

For some people, it’s hard to resist not buying an imitation product for 20 times less than the original. Replicas of famous perfumes, copies of gadgets popular and branded clothing, on the one hand, allow you to purchase objects whose original versions are not accessible to you. But, on the other hand, there are many reasons not to buy these objects, as they are very likely to deteriorate very quickly.

Yes, there are some rare exceptions, but, most of the time, the price corresponds to the quality of the productso when buying fakes it is worth preparing for the worst.

Also, of course, counterfeiters are tax evaders and therefore criminals.

In any group, there is always a person who is considered manipulative and sycophantic, but who manages to get what he wants. And how else can you explain its dizzying success?

But instead of considering yourself a spiteful victim, talk to your ‘opponent’. As the American researchers Sarah Hill and David Buss explain, envy is a natural feeling that allows us to assess our position in the competition for something. Maybe that person has qualities that you also have and should use. It’s unlikely that all the trophies you get are the result of just a pretty face or pulling the rug out from under you.

Let’s recognize this: if a woman is in front of a crowded wardrobe but still feels like she has nothing to wear, it’s obvious she has too many pieces. Oftentimes we buy under the influence of emotions, friends or discounts and, as a result, our closet is full of totally different pieces, of varied style, that don’t match each other.

Instead of getting annoyed and making excuses for being late for work, think about the possible combinations of all those clothes of yours. And even better, make a montage by combining basic pieces for every occasion. You will see that the reason for the irritation will go away by itself.

Sometimes it seems that nature just doesn’t help. When it’s hot, the freshness after showering in the morning lasts 3 minutes; if it rains your hair turns into a clump and takes on a life of its own. This causes you to often look out the window and not want to leave.

But being angry with time is like being Don Quixote, who fought windmills thinking they were giant beings. Try to find advantages in every whim of time. Rain is needed to make your favorite strawberries grow, and you can beat the heat with a delicious ice cream. Is it worth losing patience with something you can’t change?

Long hours in traffic on the way to work and home have become as commonplace for some people as brushing their teeth and making breakfast. But honestly admit it: are you willing to ditch your car and ride a bike to avoid the street traffic? Or using public transport? If the answer, in both cases, is no, then you are stressing yourself for no reason, because everything will follow the same way.

Of course, it’s possible to leave an hour early to avoid traffic, but the return trip can also be bad. It only remains adjust your schedule to traffic or accept it, because it is much worse to go mad for that reason.

It’s really hard to keep your composure when a salesperson is rude or when a guy says what he thinks about the length of your skirt.

But believe me, people yell at each other and behave rudely because they are often unhappy, and project their emotions onto others. Instead of being angry with them, try to be understanding.

When an ad appears at the most dramatic moment of your favorite television series or that song you love, it’s normal to get angry. Of course, no one is able to force you to buy goods you don’t like and that, in itself, is irritating.

The laws of the market are often stronger than art. Creating good, high-quality material takes a lot of time, creativity, and resources. You want to see better content, But are you willing to pay more for it? Otherwise, consider ads or links as a way of not having to pay to watch videos on Youtube, for example.

What things bother you a lot and how do you deal with them? Tell us in the comments.