Essential tips for you who will spend the first Christmas and New Year with your love!

From the first date until a couple commits to a relationship, lovers get to know each other little by little and increasingly participate in events and meetings with family and friends. However, when that moment comes, traditional end of year celebrations and the decision has to be made about where to spend the first Christmas and New Year together, often disagreement is inevitable.

How to reach consensus?

The conflict of interests occurs mainly because it is difficult to break with very ingrained family customs. And giving up a tradition just to please those you love can be a mistake capable of spoiling the lovers’ first year-end. Not to mention the pressure that the family will exert on both sides, which can compromise the couple’s harmony.

Therefore, the key to maintaining a good relationship when there are different wills is dialogue and respect for each other’s desires, in alternation. If possible, a good solution is to spend Christmas a little at each family’s house, so that everyone is covered.

Another suggestion is to have dinner at the girlfriend’s family’s house and open the gifts with dessert at the boyfriend’s family’s house. If the relatives are in distant places, one possibility is to spend the 24th with one family and the 25th with the other.

Gift ideas for:

classic boyfriends

1. Dinner at a famous restaurant

To meet a chef or even an award-winning bar. Deliver a “gift card” for an incredible night, complete with a seductive look, toast in crystal glasses and a delicious menu renowned in your city. The experience of experiencing new situations is always more memorable and satisfying than consuming things.

2. A good perfume

If he already has his favorite fragrances, you are less likely to make a mistake if you repeat the dose of a bottle that is at the end, for example. Or you can dare and choose a scent that conquers him, and make him experience having a scent of you.

3. Best seller book

Ask the Amazon and Brazilian bookstore rankings for help to find out what has been successful or is a world best seller. Or appeal to controversial biography, unauthorized biography, classics of literature or something of your hobby preferences, such as your artistic taste, photography, interest in woodworking, music, culture of other countries.

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4. Ticket to a concert

It can be for something different or unusual, like an opera and a musical, or more popular like a rock concert. But it could also be for a theater performance.

Sports boyfriends

5. Workout clothes or equipment

If he practices a specific modality, such as cycling or running, bet on small accessories that can only help and complement his practice. Don’t get into the ruse of choosing the basic equipment because, probably, he has his preferences and even requirements and will be uncomfortable in appearing to like the gift.

6. Trip to a sports marathon

But you can provide more intense and enriching experiences such as buying a package for you to go to a test place together. Just to meet, or for him to dispute the test. You can help finance some proof that your love has been dreaming for a long time or even provide some new and unprecedented practice situation in your life.

7. A new practice class

This is another alternative that you can take advantage of if you participate together. Buy a “trial” package for the two of you to practice something together like cross fit, ballroom dancing, acroyoga, circus, squash, slackline or even other more unusual alternatives, or that he wouldn’t think of doing alone, like tantra or rock climbing.

8. Sports tourism tour

Or or even radical. Have you ever rafted down the rapids of a river? Or have you tried rappelling down a waterfall? Being together in direct and intense contact with nature is one of the most fun and pleasurable ways to exercise. Try to take advantage of the free time together and this will be the most delicious gift of all Christmas.

romantic boyfriends

9. Massage oil

Or, if you already have that level of intimacy, you can buy an erotic toy. It doesn’t have to be anything too edgy for a Christmas gift, but something that can signal your style and you can use it as much as you want to spice things up: a pair of handcuffs, edgier lingerie, or cutesy-shaped accessory.

10. A good organic or biodynamic wine

Choose a good natural wine, one that doesn’t give you a hangover and you can drink it all night with good cheeses. Take the opportunity to taste and talk, date, listen to music or watch a good movie together.

11. An experience course for couples

Like those of sacred or tantric sexuality, if you want to know yourself more deeply. They only last for a weekend and can be windows for a step forward in the relationship, it remains to be seen if you are already prepared for it and have that intention or availability.

12. Weekend at a spa

Buy a package for a weekend of pure relaxation and rest for two. You can take the opportunity to take walks nearby or just stay inside the establishment if it offers options such as therapeutic baths, sauna, massage, and so on. There are several online booking options available.

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