When we start a relationship, we don’t stop to think about whether it will have an expiration date, but on certain occasions love can end, routine can take over the relationship or simply both decide that ending is the best option.

If you are going through something like this, before ending your relationship, I suggest you ask yourself these 8 questions:

1- Why do I want to break up with this person?

Writing down the reasons why you want to end the relationship can help you make your decision. Seeing your own feelings written on a piece of paper can make you think about it. You might even wonder why you didn’t end the relationship sooner.

2- Is there any way to solve the problems we have as a couple?

No relationship is perfect. Identifying problems together can help you seek a solution to the evil that has affected your relationship.

The problem is why is one of you jealous? The best thing is to sit down together and discuss what has been getting in the way of the relationship over the days.

Remember that communication between the two of you is essential for a healthy relationship.

3- Will I regret this decision?

Before making such an important decision as ending your relationship, make sure you have a clear head!

You must do what you have to do with great certainty so that there are no regrets.

4- What will my life be like after we break up?

Imagine what it would be like to be without the person you talk to 24/7.

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If you read the above sentence with a feeling of sadness, I advise you to reconsider your decision to end your relationship!

5- How should I end my relationship?

We’ve seen thousands of stories of couples who end their relationship via Facebook message, Whatsapp and others who just disappear, but when the reality is that the other person’s feelings are just as important as yours, the best thing to do is for you to sit down together. and explain the reason for the termination.

You may not be able to have contact in the future as friends, but that is part of the relationship. Don’t be bad, don’t be upset. Follow your life!

6- What should I say?

First ask your partner for his or her point of view on the relationship. Then you give yours and make it clear if your real decision is to break up.

7- Should I let him know that in the future our relationship may resume?

This is very inappropriate, as leaving the door open to get back together in the future means that you are ending the relationship but you are leaving some doubts unresolved.

It is very valid that even after the breakup you continue talking, but I advise that only as friends. If you decide to come back again, let it happen naturally.