Does the womanizing man suffer? Yes, for these 6 reasons

There is no doubt that womanizers have a bad reputation.

Because? Because no woman trusts them, no matter how much charm they have.

But there is something that is not known, and believe me, as the sister of a womanizer, I can confirm it:

The womanizing man suffers. And boy does he do it!

I’ve spent my life witnessing it…

So many romances, challenges and twists and turns overwhelm him.

I know, it’s hard to believe, but here’s why.

Why does a womanizer suffer?

1) The eternal exploration

Psychology uses the example of the Casanova to explain the behavior of the womanizer.

Giacomo Casanova was an 18th century Venetian adventurer.

But his name is popular because of his ability and passion for conquering women.

Hence the term Casanova that we all know.

The womanizer is usually defined as a Casanova because of his need for eternal exploration.

That is to say, beyond the skills he has to conquer women, he enjoys doing it.

Because he’s passionate about the female gender and he can’t help it.

Wanting to meet and conquer different women is part of his nature.

And if they can’t be accompanied, they feel anxiety or even depression.

2) Can’t stop

Because of his way of being, it is difficult for a womanizer to find peace.

Going from conquest to conquest, his life is a constant challenge.

He is unable to stop and relax, as he chooses to challenge himself frequently.

And if you’ve already reached your goal, you’ll immediately start thinking about the next one.

Which can be exhausting.

3) Jealousy

In addition, he is often jealous.

Not only jealous of those who are with the woman he wants, but also with the past of the women who are or want to be in his life.

He must be the center of attention, if he does not succeed, jealousy invades him.

4) Rejection

Most of the women around him are attracted to him.

Therefore, meeting a woman who is not interested or sets limits hurts her ego.

Above all, if you ignore or block him both in life and on social networks.

I assure you that will knock him out!

5) Instability

His eagerness to conquer and constantly have challenges makes him unstable.

That is, it is not easy to maintain a partner for a long time.

And even if you don’t believe it, this can suffer.

Because as much as he recognizes his true love, he may not be able to contain himself.

And, although he will try, he may not be able to maintain the relationship for long.

And this usually hurts them a lot.

Imagine life without having someone to hug or give you sincere love and you will understand how they feel.

6) Love escapes them

Being constantly in search of a conquest, it is difficult for him to recognize a stable partner.

Because?

Because his mind is always set on flirting, romance and the girl on duty to conquer.

His distraction prevents him not only from recognizing his own feelings for a woman with whom he could be serious, but from recognizing her as a possible stable partner as well.

Therefore, they usually realize that they are in love when it is already too late.

What hurts a womanizer man the most?

The womanizer is a born seducer.

He has the ability to detect what the woman to conquer wants to hear.

That is, he knows how to talk, pretend and lie to seduce.

And he’s usually irresistibly charming doing it.

However, this gift of manipulation is also his punishment.

Because sooner or later women detect this treacherous quality.

Which, after all, generates his bad reputation as a womanizer.

I know you understand me. We have all been there once.

You hear that an acquaintance or friend is dating a womanizer and…

You are automatically invaded by a feeling of pity for her and a thirst for revenge towards him.

Because we know that a womanizer is synonymous with betrayal.

Therefore, knowing in advance that he is a womanizer makes it difficult for him to flirt.

Or at least, it makes women not take it seriously or even reject it.

Which can hurt him if he is really in love or looking for a serious relationship.

What is the end of a womanizing man

The doctor and psychoanalyst, Fernando Maestre, clarifies that the end of a womanizing man is loneliness.

If you’ve seen the movie Alfie, with the actor Jude Law, you know what I’m talking about.

The eternal seducer goes from conquest to conquest, enjoying his romances with all kinds of interesting women.

But he realizes too late that by doing this he fails to connect or have a bond.

I mean, deep down, Alfie, like any other womanizer, is alone.

And that is what terrifies the most, not only to any human being, but to every womanizer:

loneliness.

Can a womanizer man fall in love?

Yes, womanizers also fall in love.

Although, I must warn you that it may be difficult for them to change.

Psychology indicates that a womanizing man can suffer from fear of commitment.

That does not mean that they will never be able to establish a lasting relationship.

But it can be difficult for them to understand the emotions that lead to it.

You see, such a man needs to constantly experience the feeling of having a new romance.

And settling down means putting an end to that adrenaline rush, among other things. And that costs them.

Although, psychologists indicate that mature womanizers aged 35 or over are already beginning to understand the risk of living from romance to romance.

Above all, when his heart has already been broken or he has lost the woman he was in love with for being this way.

This was what happened to my brother.

Yes, do you remember that I told you that I am the sister of a legitimate womanizer!?

To this day, he still regrets not being able to stay in a relationship with the woman he loved.

And those blows of life helped him understand that behind every romance there is a wonderful woman to discover and love.

So maybe the womanizing man who drives you crazy can see you for who you are.

Don’t lose hope and be yourself.

But remember, if he fails to understand your importance, go your way.

And repeat to yourself the words of Santa Shakira: A wolf like me is not for guys like youuuu…