Do you know what cuckolding is?

Infidelity is one of the most common reasons why couples decide to end their relationship. However, today there is a new fetishism that seeks this type of deception, whether real or imaginary, with the objective of achieving pleasure and increasing the flame of passion in the couple. Its about cuckolding.

This peculiar fetishistic modality consists of A woman has sex with another man and then tells her partner what she has experienced in this encounter, or he acts as a spectator during the sexual relationship. Curiously, from this, the passion in the couple’s relationship is reborn again.

In this practice, it is called cuckolds to those men who allow their partner or wife has sex with other men while he just sits back and watches. On many occasions, they are the ones who encourage their partners to carry out these types of acts, where they “cheat” on them with another man to obtain greater sexual excitement.

However, the term should not be confused cuckolding with that of voyeurism. The latter consists of the act of observing other people naked, in underwear or having sexual relations without them being aware of it with the aim of becoming aroused.

The practice of cuckolding

People say that cuckolding It’s the alternative lifestyle fastest growing and, whether couples incorporate it as a fantasy role-playing game or as a reality, it appeals to women and men on primary, intellectual and socio-political levels. In fact, it has been called intellectual fetishism.

A person what practice cuckolding is sexually aroused by the fantasy or reality where his partner, who he considers attractive, has sexual relations with another person, usually with someone similar to his alter ego.

Dr. Leon Seltzer states that the excitement that this type of situation produces can be caused by the vicarious experimentation of the sexual relationship that one is accustomed to having as the protagonist. That is to say, in some way acting as a spectator increases the levels of excitement.

Furthermore, we cannot forget the powerful role that transgression has in the cuckolding, for both women and men. For the first it would represent contact with what is forbidden through the breaking of fidelity and for the second, the act of driving the couple to transgress.

What are we looking for with this fetishism?

Experts give their opinion on the reason why this sexual practice may appeal to a certain type of people, mostly men:

For some it is considered as a variant of masochism. Feeling humiliated by your partner is important for defenders of this variant. But the fact that practitioners of this modality are not attracted to other forms of sadomasochism means that this option is somewhat ruled out. According to other theories, It would not be a way of being dominated, but rather of dominating, since it is the man who decides when and under what conditions they deceive him. It can be believed in other cases that it is a form of escapismor what is the same, its defenders use it unconsciously to avoid their own sexual responsibilities towards another man. There are also those who believe that the fact of turn women into a hypersexual object, tremendously desired by another man, while one thinks that he is still his “owner”, there are people who feel he is a status symbol.Masking bisexuality is another possible explanation. Making people believe that it is the woman who produces the excitement and taking advantage of this mask to observe a man openly performing the sexual act could be another reason for its practice.

Whatever the explanation, it is clear that Those who practice it freely and consciously fully enjoy this fetish. It is within the freedom and needs of each human being to put it into practice or, on the contrary, classify it as an impossible act.

A positive experience?

According to a recent study by David Ley, Justin Lehmiller and writer Dan Savage, the practice or fantasy of cuckolding can be a largely positive experience for many couplesand hardly a sign of weakness.

Now, it is vitally important that the members of the couple has great trust and respect when it comes to consenting to this type of relationship and it is taken as a game with which to fan the flame of passion. That is, it is about the two of them connecting and enjoying these acts, without demands or pressures.