Do you know how to identify the signs of a betrayal?

Being betrayed, the most radical would say, is just a matter of time. The truth is that the temptations and facilities that today’s world offers for the famous “leap fence” to take place are numerous, and it’s very difficult to find that movie guy who won’t make you go through this situation.

However, in the same way that cheating has become almost too easy, it also doesn’t take a genius to discover a betrayal, especially since men give off many signals when they are doing something wrong, just pay attention. If you’re suspicious of your partner, some of his behaviors may be the confirmation you’ve been waiting for.

Cell

Nowadays almost everyone has a cell phone, which makes it one of the main means of communication and therefore a tool that is likely to be used if your partner is cheating on you. Be wary if he suddenly starts to leave you to answer calls, exchange excessive text messages or keep the device always hidden, walking only with it in his pocket, for example.

Treatment

If your partner, without a specific reason, changes the way he treats you, be aware: men who feel guilty about something they did tend to compensate, starting to treat their partner much better, all of a sudden. The opposite, however, is also a warning sign. If your partner has suddenly started to treat you very badly, he may be interested in someone else.

mysterious appointments

When a man says he’s going to work late, when a man starts dedicating many nights a week to football or video games with his friends, when a man has to take a lot of work trips on the weekends, when he can’t see you at Saturday night because the grandmother is sick, anyway, there are several mysterious commitments that can indicate a betrayal.

Internet

The internet is the representation of an opportunity for betrayal. Like the cell phone, it is now common for people to communicate through the internet, which makes it another source of doubts and mistrust. When your boyfriend spends too much time on the internet, without it being an old habit, it may not be cheating, but more radical women would point this out as a warning sign for you.

New friendships

It can be in college, at work or even in the circle of friends. The guy just can’t stop mentioning his newfound friendships. Comments such as “the so-and-so is very competent/smart/funny” can be very innocent, but when they are too frequent, they can also be interpreted as a certain level of interest on the part of the guy.

Opinion

João Rafael C. (26 years old/single) says: “I believe that when there are some standard signs such as: inattention and lack of companionship, it is necessary to be suspicious. The person who betrays stops caring about the partner, stops sacrificing himself for the common good of the couple. Loses interest in joint activities, has traces of irritability. In my opinion these are the main signs. But the biggest, for sure, is disinterest.”

Verônica P. (28 years old/fiancée) thinks that sudden changes in behavior or fights can also be a sign that the person is cheating on you. Reader Juliana C. (21 years old/dating) also gave her opinion: “When the partner hides his cell phone, avoids accessing social networks in front of him and does not answer his cell phone at decisive moments – for example on a Friday night – it may maybe there’s something wrong. Unless the relationship is open or in cases where the couple does not use their cell phone and social networks very often. But for me, these are strong indications. Even because betrayals today begin virtually.”

How to react in the face of suspicion?

If you suspect that the activities carried out by the cat through the cell phone are, in fact, contacts with other women, don’t freak out and don’t even think about investigating. In addition to being ugly, this attitude demonstrates a lack of respect for the space of the other. In the same way, watching every step taken by your partner should not be an option, because it makes you a slave to surveillance 24 hours a day.

When there is suspicion of betrayal, the best thing to do is to analyze the possible options. Open dialogue is always the best way to solve the problem fairly, preventing both parties from hurting each other further. First, wait for the anger you felt at first to subside before attempting any kind of conversation. Attitudes taken with a hot head do not always correspond to what we actually want to do.