Discover how our emotions can make us more attractive

We live in a social moment in which we are investing time again to take care of our appearance. In many cases we do it in order to project an image that makes us attractive and desired. Not sexually anymore, but we like to be considered pleasant company and as someone who contributes to any social circle to which we belong.

For this we We focus too much on feeling beautiful and attractive on the outside., leaving aside our inner development. We thus achieve a dissonance between the image we project and our personality. A contradiction that always brings a point of discomfort and that the other usually ends up noticing.

Behind this attitude there is also a widespread idea that literature, cinema or television has been responsible for making popular. This belief states that the person who is capable of generating a certain aura of mystery seems more attractive.. The idea is based on the fact that by nature we are attracted to the unknown and we love surprises. Thus, science has wanted to question this logic and this is what we are going to delve into below.

“First of all, romantic attraction is tenacious, like all impulses, and it is very difficult to make it disappear. Emotions, however, come and go: you can be happy in the morning and angry in the afternoon.

-Helen Fisher-

People who are easy to read emotionally seduce us more

A scientific study carried out by the National Academy of Sciences revealed that People are attracted to people who are emotionally “easier to read.” The results indicated that we find those who retain an air of mystery, condition the expression of their emotions, and are difficult to decipher much less attractive.

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The study’s researchers asked a group of people to look at photos of six different women and men. Next, they They asked them to try to guess what emotions these people were feeling when they were photographed. and, at the same time, they asked them to also rate their degree of attractiveness.

The more expressive a person is, the more attractive we perceive them to be.

The results revealed that those women and men who did not express much or retained this aura of mystery were not as attractive to the study participants who looked at the photos. The conclusion that could be drawn is that The more expressive a person is and the easier it is to guess their emotion, the more attractive we perceive them.

It is true that despite this study, we do not intend to seek to not preserve said mystery or that being a non-expressive person means that you are not attractive. The most important thing, in terms of our personal growth and interior, is that we express our emotions in a healthy way.

Our expressions allow us to live and fulfill ourselves as the extraordinary human beings that we are. Also, now you know that Your emotions make you someone more attractive to your environment and yourself. Remember that balance when expressing ourselves is always the most appropriate. It allows us to set our own limits and not carry out an exaggerated expression in front of others, thus avoiding having blockages in terms of healthy personal relationships.

“When we find ourselves before the spiritual passion of Desire with a capital letter, we are gathering all our intellectual, emotional, physical, imaginative resources, in addition to the animal and angelic, and pouring them into our work… The word desire comes from “desidere”, far from of your star It means elongation of the source, and the concomitant and powerful attraction of returning to the source… Love is a state of resonance between the absence of the loved one and its closeness, a vibratory resonance, harmonized between being two and being one.

-Stephen Nachmanovitch-

Thus, we could conclude that just as a physical appearance makes us healthier, Being emotionally intelligent also gives us a great advantage.. Perhaps mystery can help a relationship maintain the spark that shone when it began. However, in a first meeting, science tells us we will be more attractive if we express ourselves openly and let our emotions be seen.

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