Dare to be yourself every day of your life

Do you dare to be yourself? Many of us We live our day to day thinking more about what others will say than about us. We live in constant fear of be ourselves, which leads us to try to be as the people we respect, love and “we believe” who they expect us to be. In short, we almost always end up carrying out the actions that others would like, seeking to achieve what they themselves want but not what we feel.

Many times I have asked myself “so that” of this energy that leads us to live our fantastic life like this. And I came to the conclusion that When you love or care for someone, you are moved by the continuous desire not to fail them. and seek acceptance with pride on their part, of our person.

But I would like to reach an agreement between the two of us to continue this story. To do this, I would love for you to ask yourself the following question: “What is an opinion for you?” . Surely, our answers are similar.

Being yourself can be difficult if you are always focused on what others will think about you.

One of the things you may have thought of is surely similar and universal: The opinion of the person we love with all our being conditions us and it matters so much that it often leads us to be what we are not, to put aside our being and essence, and in many cases abandon it forever.

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It may also happen that Let’s stop being what we are with the intention of finding mutual consensus and support for something that for that important person is not to their liking.. Something dangerous that conditions us to stay at that point and always respond with a Yeah full of doubts and resignation. In short, what we are not. But the important thing is to be safe and trust ourselves; In this way, we can accept the advice of others and not condition ourselves.

Friendship, a fundamental support

An essential aspect when it comes to fully developing ourselves as what we are and shining with our own light is friendship. Those people that we choose, who do not come to us by chance and who, when they are authentic and true, care about giving us the best. The best advice usually comes from them since they know us too well, both our vulnerabilities and our personal strengths.

For all that, they can affect us so much the beliefs that they may have of ourselves. The good thing about your best friends? YesThey always have something extraordinary to transmit to you or to make you improve. Even getting the feeling that they know us better than we do.

In short, as I shared with you at the beginning, We live our day to day trying to make the people we love happy, trying at all times not to disappoint them and in the end, having the consequence of being who we are not.

Being yourself means not disappointing others, but not disappointing yourself; Being yourself means stopping prioritizing external opinions to prioritize your own. What are you waiting for to be yourself?

Take charge of your life!

But I invite you to take a moment of reflection and answer the following powerful questions: Have you ever wondered if you feel free?Are you happy with your life and how you really are? Do you feel proud of yourself? Do you know what your dream is? And most important of all, do you do what you feel or what you should? If you answer these with a negative, it will probably be time to turn your life around and take charge of your own desires, be the captain of your destiny and fly free. Without masks, or excessive conditioning of your environment.

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But I cannot say goodbye to you today, without clarifying to you on the other hand that The opinion of the people around us is clearly very important, necessary and provides support when it comes to improving ourselves.. The people who love us, you already know, are the best counselors and teachers we can have. They know you better than anyone else and even better than you, sometimes.; since your fears do not condition them, and they can be free.

I invite you to stop for a moment, save a moment for yourself and your fantastic heart and Think honestly about who you are and who you want to become, to convert you Do you feel good about it? Are all your emotions and vital sensations in order, where they should be to feel good?

You already know that you yourself have the power and resources to make as many positive turns in your life as you need. Life creates us to feel good about ourselves, love ourselves, understand ourselves and give the best of ourselves to the world and those around us.. And for this, we need to be sincere. Ultimately, ourselves.

There is nothing more powerful than someone who believes in themselves and is eager to achieve their dreams and desires.

Dare to integrate into your daily life the belief that “The greatest power that exists in the world is to believe in yourself.” and use it with you and your soul, with all your heart. Dare to be, as they say, the captain of your soul, of your own destiny.

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