Cancer and Aquarius – Is it possible for this couple to be happy?

Cancer and Aquarius are totally different, but believe me: they can live a beautiful love story. For that, they will need to be understanding.

They say we’re a strange couple
A serious girl and a dreamer
We lay on the grass to count stars
We’re looking for a flying saucer

as in music “Birdie”, by Lucas Lucco, Cancer and Aquarius make a very strange couple. Nobody believes they can have anything in common. But there are a few things that bind this couple together. Check out!

Cancer matches Aquarius?

Aquarius finds Cancer helpful in some way – Aquarians are very romantic, aren’t they? #sqn.

And Cancer finds Aquarius mystical and intriguing, which appeals to him, as Cancer loves something to unravel.

At first glance, we are sure that these two signs share absolutely nothing in common, which can be a tricky for Cancer with Aquarius to work out.

But the truth is that they share the characteristic of strangeness. Aquarius is strange in a sudden, shocking and unconventional way. Cancer, on the other hand, is strange in a darker and dreamier way.

Also, both are constantly changing despite Aquarius being a fixed sign while Cancer is cardinal.

Cancer follows the cycles of the Moon. So your changes can be predictable: just follow the lunar calendar.

Aquarius’ changes are synchronized with Uranus’ lightning. But I don’t know anyone who can predict when the thunder will strike and what its influence will be.

Thus, Aquarius changes his tastes, moods and ideas from one moment to the next. In fact, the Aquarius changes his mind when he sees that most people agree with him. This native wants his opinion to be unique, different from everyone else.

I think you can understand that Cancer and Aquarius in love is intriguing and not boring, right?

Cancer and Aquarius in Love

The Cancer is very reactive and is always begging the other to meet their emotional needs and diving deeply into their feelings.

This is exactly why Aquarius loves to have fun playing with this sign and surprising him when he least expects it.

As Cancer’s reactions are always unexpected, Aquarius watches them as if they were a movie: sometimes happy, sometimes sad, sometimes secret, sometimes angry, sometimes tender, sometimes desperate and so on.

The Crab can also react to Aquarius pranks ambiguously: burst into tears and start laughing. Die laughing and then sob. Get angry and then soften.

But there’s a Cancer mood that Aquarius hates: too much privacy and secrets. Aquarius has nothing to hide and cannot understand why Cancer is so suspicious and self-protective.

Also, Cancer doesn’t like Aquarian curiosity and blunt speech. And Aquarius hates Cancer’s tendency to pout.

The truth is, for Cancer to get along well with Aquarius, the two need some time away from time to time.

Relationship between Cancer and Aquarius

Cancer woman with Aquarius man

As much as it is not apparent, the Aquarius also craves affection, like anyone else. But he will never admit it and he hates being plunged into an ocean of emotions.

And guess who is an ocean of emotions? The Cancer woman. A Cancerian’s possessiveness can stifle Aquarius’ need for the fresh air of freedom.

The Aquarius man will be thrilled to be questioned by the Cancer native about the clothes he is wearing, what he ate that day, what he did with the R$ 50 he had in his pocket yesterday.

How you both deal with these traits in each other will be the answer to the question of whether Cancer matches Aquarius.

Of course, he’s going to love getting all the attention that Cancer will give him. But when that attention threatens to restrict his exploration of the world, he will withdraw.

On the Cancer side, the strange behavior of the Aquarius can confuse this woman, bringing her to tears. Faced with these situations, Aquarius will act as if the Cancer woman wasn’t even there, even less will she notice her crying.

But it won’t just be the Cancer woman who will irritate the Aquarius. He also does a lot of things that bother her, like trying to find out her secrets – even if she doesn’t even have any secrets.

She likes to be quiet, on her own, thoughtful from time to time. Aquarius will not understand Cancer’s need to be alone in these moments and will pester her with her presence.

How to make Cancer and Aquarius work together?

For this combination of signs to work, one cannot interfere in the habits of the other. The Cancerian will have to restrict her controlling impulses and the Aquarius will need to allow this woman to have her space for solitary reflection.

They also need to know that the older the Aquarius man makes his habits stronger. Cancer, on the other hand, becomes more melancholy with age, often visiting those places far from her childhood dreams.

So, for these two to build a lasting relationship, they will need to commit body and soul to each other.

Aquarius woman with Cancer man

Cancer is very attached to family and Aquarius is completely detached. So the biggest mistake this woman can make is trying to pull the Cancer man out of his attachment to memories of home and his mother.

For Aquarius, today is not important, so imagine the past? For him, only the future matters. This native is not emotionally attached to what is gone. She knows the past doesn’t come back.

Cancer nostalgia can irritate the Aquarius woman, causing her to tell him to grow up and return to the real world. But Aquarius doesn’t have a lot of sense and probably won’t know how to say it with kind words, which will affect Cancer’s sensitive feelings.

The Cancer man will be deeply hurt to discover that the woman he loves has no compassion for his nostalgic needs.

Problems in sight

The Aquarius woman is kind of crazy, everyone knows that. This native has the strange habit of crying when she is overjoyed and laughing maniacally when she is heartbroken.

These reactions of hers will confuse the Cancer. He will have a hard time understanding her and dealing with her sudden changes: from tomboy to princess, from soft to abrupt. Does this inconsistency sound familiar to you?

So it is. Aquarius is as temperamental as Cancer. So with this woman, he will have to swallow his own poison and face constant mood swings.

It may seem that the Aquarius woman lacks empathy. But the truth is, she cares more about big humanitarian issues than her partner’s feelings or how their relationship is going.

Calm down, Cancer, she’s not insensitive. Sooner or later, she will realize the hurt she is causing her gentle partner, whom she loves so much.

When she realizes this, she will do everything possible and impossible to make it up to him, to show how much she cares for him.

Cancer and Aquarius in bed

When it comes to sex, there is an undeniable attraction between them. In fact, it’s this powerful chemistry that drew them to each other from the start.

Cancer brings with it a depth of tenderness that warms the Aquarian heart. And Aquarius awakens in Cancer a crazy passion in bed.

In the hour of pleasure, Aquarius murmurs a magical mantra to Cancer with a single glance and Cancer hears the thunderous sound, even though there is silence between them.

Cancer and Aquarius kiss is dreamy and sensitive, revealing the feelings they both feel and try to hide from each other.

This is a very different physical relationship from what we are used to. In fact, Aquarius thinks sex is a very funny way for a man and a woman to express their needs.

For this sign, there are better ways to prove your love for each other, such as raising money together to build an orphanage or school.

But the truth is that even though the act of love between them is strange, these two manage to understand each other.

Want to see other combinations for your sign? See “Sign Compatibility”.