Attract love into your life

Love is one of the greatest illusions of human beings. This feeling overflows us with positive energy that makes everything flow more freely.

Have you found yourself desperately searching for the perfect partner? Is your greatest aspiration to feel complemented by the person who makes your world go round? Maybe now you don’t think you will succeed, but you shouldn’t despair.

“True love is selfless and free of all fear. He pours himself out on the object of his affection without asking for anything in return. “His joy is in the joy of giving.”

-Florence Scovel-

Stop living in the illusion

We have grown up surrounded by fairy tales and stories with happy endings.

Love is going to come into your life, that’s true. But you must learn to see. You are human, your partner will be human and neither will be perfect. What you should look for is someone you are compatible with, stop waiting for someone to knock on your door and go out and find them.

It is important that you be realistic in what you are looking for. You can’t wait your whole life for the perfect person because they simply don’t exist. Look for someone who is compatible with who you are and what you are looking for in the future.

“Better a cruel truth than a comfortable illusion.”

-Edward Paul Abbey-

Keep an eye on what’s around you

It may happen that you are certain that There is no one in your environment that interests you. Well then you must go out and find it. I’m not talking about contact pages, although they can work. The best thing is to start a course that interests you a lot, that amuses and entertains you. It can be yoga, painting, cooking or whatever.

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You will see that the people who attend that course have similar interests to yours. You will already have things in common, you just need to see if you are compatible in the rest. What you should always avoid is “going hunting”. Focus on getting to know the rest of the participants, having a good time and socializing.

Dress for what you are looking for

Make sure you dress and act as natural as possible.

Whoever looks at you must look at you and be surprised by you as you are. Furthermore, it is true that the first impression is very important, surely you will also analyze the other person. Think that if the relationship lasts, sooner or later he will see you really as you are and if he doesn’t like this new version there will be problems. Whoever loves you will love you for who you are.

“Pretending is the closest key to falsehood and, therefore, loneliness.”

-Anonymous-

In love, be sincere

Make your opinions clear from the beginning. You must say “no” when necessary. The person who is getting to know you and who wants to be part of your life must be clear about what your tastes are, what things you dislike and what makes you laugh. You don’t have to be complacent at the beginning because if not, the end is going to be hell.

Sincerity should be your most precious weapon. Don’t start the relationship with deception, games or things that are not true. It’s simple: if you cheat on the other person, the relationship will be a lie. Always express what you feel and trust each other to form a stable and secure couple. If there are no unnecessary worries, they will only have time to enjoy themselves.

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Falling in love is a process

Don’t be obsessed with finding love

However, the ultimate reward is worth it and all the experiences will prepare you for your ultimate relationship. For now, have fun, meet new people and relate to the one who is already in your life.