ANAL SEX WITHOUT PAIN: best positions + tips for great pleasure 💕

In addition to the taboo, some sexual practices bring a series of doubts and questions, and anal sex without pain is among them. Know that this type of relationship can happen without trauma and with great pleasure: just follow some recommendations. If you want to know more about the subject, check out tips for positions, products and questions answered by experts.

Best positions to have anal sex without feeling pain

According to Marcelle Paganini, psychologist and sexologist at the Anima project, for beginners, it is always better to bet on positions in which the person receiving penetration can control the entry movement. Below, see tips for those who are looking for painless anal sex.

sideways

With the couple lying on their sides, the person who will receive can control with their hands and butt all the entrance and the movements as they perceive the pleasure – and it is also possible to check the pain thresholds.

Over

This is another position that helps beginners: the person who will receive penetration should be on top, either in a lying or sitting position. Thus, it is possible to control the intensity and penetration.

Face down

Although the person receiving it does not have as much control over the entrance of the penis, this position is indicated for those who are having their first experiences with anal sex because the butt is not very high. This makes the penetration not so deep.

legs open up

In this slightly more intermediate position, the person who will receive penetration should lie down with their legs spread upwards. Among the main advantages are eye contact and the possibility of stimulating the clitoris at the same time.

As Marcelle explains, the most interesting thing is for each one to observe their anatomy and slowly experiment. Another tip is not to try to copy scenes from porn movies right at the beginning: positions like four are only indicated for those who already have practice in anal sex.

5 tips for painless anal sex

Sexologist Marcelle Paganini explains that when it comes to anal sex, a person hardly ever feels pleasure right away – but, of course, it depends on the arousal. Below are some recommendations for those who want to venture out:

1. Get in the mood: for anal sex, it is essential that the body is prepared and well relaxed. In this sense, foreplay cannot be neglected: it is worth trying a Greek kiss, stimulating with your fingers and, in a moment of great excitement, going for anal penetration through the penis.
2. Use the right products: according to Marcelle Paganini, using anesthetics for clinical use is not recommended. To reduce discomfort and tension, it is worth using specific products. The desensitizer, which was created especially for anal sex, must be applied 10 to 15 minutes before penetration to take effect. A legal alternative is to already use it in foreplay.
3. Lubricate: as the anus is not a region naturally prepared for penetration, it is very important that it is well lubricated. Tip from the sexologist: prefer products that are compatible with condoms (generally silicone-based, but there are also some water-based ones).
4. Bet on sex toys: Sex toys that vibrate can help, if placed on the clitoris or close to the anus to provide extra excitement. Now, if you’re on a less excited day, save the anal for another time.
5. Don’t forget the condom: Marcelle comments that there are natural bacteria in the rectum that, in contact with the male urethra or vagina (even days later), can cause very serious health complications, such as infections and even loss of genitals.

Products for more comfortable anal sex

Both in pharmacies and sex shops, there is no lack of legal options for pain-free anal sex, from lubricants and desensitizers to hygiene products. See options:

1. Intimate Lubricant Sachet Aquagel Neutral Sexy Fantasy, at Me Seduza
2. Foam for Care and Sanitization of the Anal Region IN-H, at Lolla Sex Shop
3. Sex Jet Gel Comfort, at Desire Hidden
4. Golden Button Anal Desensitizer, at Dona Coelha
5. K-med 2 in 1 Lubricant Gel, at Panvel
6. Gentle foam for anal sex relief and protection Analcare, at Clique Sex Shop

Remember to always use specific products for the region: anesthetics such as xylocaine are highly contraindicated.

Top 4 questions answered by experts

What are your main questions about anal sex? The proctologist Tulio Denadai answered some of the most frequently asked questions on the subject. Check out:

1. Does anal sex cause hemorrhoids? Tulio explains that hemorrhoidal disease is caused by a set of factors, such as defecation effort, hygiene habits, diet, age and others. Anal sex by itself is not a cause, but it can harm those who already have symptoms.

2. Who has hemorrhoids can do? We all have hemorrhoids, but hemorrhoidal disease contraindicates intercourse. People with other orifice problems, such as fissures and abscesses, should also avoid anal sex, as the practice increases the risk of transmitting STDs and can lead to complications from the disease itself.

3. Is it normal to bleed during or after intercourse? Although it can happen, it is not normal to have bleeding. In this regard, the doctor comments that we should ward off diseases and abandon habits such as not using lubricants.

4. Can anal sex cause illness? Yes, it can cause diseases, STDs mainly. All sexual intercourse must be done safely, and the use of condoms (condoms) is fully advised for its prevention.

Did you like the tips? To spice up your life within four walls, also see how to reach orgasm alone or with a partner.