Many say they love without truly loving. Others have difficulty with what they feel and are unable to show their feelings with attitudes. It ends up confusing you, doesn’t it?

After all, how do you know if he loves you? Yes he has! And I’ll show you in this post soon.

How do I know if he really loves me?

There are some signs he gives that can show if he really loves you. There are also some questions you can ask yourself to try to find out what he feels and be safer, even when he doesn’t say those three little words that everyone likes to hear.

understand the signs

Most men, even those who have difficulty showing love, usually show signs of what they are feeling. By paying attention to these signs you will be able to answer your question and know if he truly loves you:

1- He speaks well of you to friends and family

Maybe he doesn’t show pride in what he’s accomplished. Or say with all the words how good you think you are at what he does professionally. Or even how he likes the way he handles his problems or treats his family and friends. But if your mutual friends and family tell you that he’s been talking well about you out there, it’s a big sign that he loves you.

2- He is interested in your affairs and listens to you carefully

If he goes beyond “ahan” and nodding to show he’s listening to you, it’s a sign that he loves you. If he makes observations on the subject and gives consistent opinions, it also shows that he listens to you carefully.

3- He likes to talk to you

Men have a hard time talking about their problems, insecurities and weaknesses. Much more than women. If he talks to you about things that bother him and asks you for opinions and advice, it’s a sign that he loves you, trusts you, and feels comfortable around you.

4- He makes decisions that include you

It could be to decide if he’s going to buy or wear the blue or yellow blouse, what you’re going to do on the weekend or if he’s going to accept the new job offer or not. If he includes you in the decisions he needs to make, it’s a sign that he loves you.

5- He makes plans with you

It could be for the next weekend, for the next weekend or for next year’s vacation. If he makes plans with you, he is very likely to love you.

6- He gives up things for you

Do you get annoyed with some quirk or behavior of his, like drinking too much with friends or liking her friends’ photo on social media and he decides to stop doing that to please you? Another sign of love.

7- He doesn’t play games

He shows up to see you when you say he’s going. It doesn’t take long to respond to his messages. Do you seek to have attitudes consistent with your words? Another sign that he loves you.

8- He includes you in his life

You can only occupy one place in his life: will you be the protagonist, supporting player or spectator? If he includes you in his life, making sure you’re with him on the shows he likes the most, introduces you to his friends and family and keeps you close? He wants you to be a part of his life and he loves you.

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ask yourself

Of course, men are different and can behave in different ways, especially in public. But we try to cite some situations that show that he is interested in who you are, in making you happy and that he respects you. These attitudes form the basis of every relationship.

Here are some questions you should ask yourself to try to answer the question how do I know if he loves me?

Does he text you in the middle of the day just to say he misses you or that he remembered you when he saw something on the street or listened to a song?
Does he care about your day? Texts or calls you to find out how you slept, how you did on the test, the job interview, or that important meeting?
Does he remember (or struggle to remember) important dates, things you told him or asked him to do?