25 undeniable signs he desires you

They say that men are simple, but this is not always the case.

Trying to read how he feels about you is like opening a high-security safe.

You need the right key to achieve it.

But there are more obvious signs that you can pay attention to.

And these attitudes can show not only that he wants to be with you, but that he wants you.

Desire? Yes that’s how it is. We also need to know if they are hot or not.

So read on to find out how a man behaves when he’s aroused.

Also, I’ll tell you what to do to keep it on fire. Are you ready?

banishing the myth

Before we go into details with arousal features, let’s clear something up.

Either he loves you or he met you five minutes ago and he wants to seduce you.

There is a myth that says that every man will be willing to have sex, always.

Why am I talking to you about this?

Because we have the habit of thinking that men are always hot.

And we tend to take any indication as a sign of male arousal.

Remember that this is not always the case, and that not everything has to do with sex.

According to Dr. José Benítez Molina, it is not true that a man is easily aroused.

In an interview for EFEsalud.com he clarifies that,

“Men are also affected by the demands of the daily routine, work obligations or problems that arise in the relationship.”

This does not mean that men can raise their temperature with less effort.

Since they manage to warm up faster than women.

That is to say, they manage to get excited with less stimulation and in less time.

So if you suspect that your man wants you, that’s a good sign!

But how do you know if it’s really hot?

With this list of 14 characteristics you will detect if he is burning with desire for you.

14 tricks to tell if a man is turned on

1) You have forgotten the meaning of personal space

We know that we must stay a few inches from another person.

It’s like we all have an invisible bubble around us that delimits personal space.

When a man doesn’t want you, instinctively distance yourself and respect your bubble.

He may cross his arms when talking to you or show his disinterest in another way.

On the other hand, if a man wants you, he will forget what personal space means.

Because he won’t see you as “just another person.”

You are his sexual objective, and what he wants most at that moment.

Which means that the mental barriers of personal space have fallen on his head.

You will need to remind him from time to time to take a step back, if it bothers you.

I’m sure he’ll notice and apologize.

How to tempt him more?

If you enjoy that he approaches you.

Every time you get close to him, get closer to him.

But, be brief. Don’t let him enjoy your company for too long.

For example:

If you are in a place with friends and he sits next to you, pretend that something falls on the ground near him.

When doing this, try to get as close as possible (without making it obvious).

If you have an excuse to pass your face close to his or even touch his body, all the better.

I assure you that getting so close to him surprisingly will make his adrenaline rise.

This will tempt him to keep looking for you.

2) Looks and smells great

She always dresses to impress and makes sure to look and smell her best.

Men know that their general hygiene is very important to women.

If he has sexual intentions with you, believe me. I will pay attention to this.

3) He has told you that he wants you

Some men do not play or want to waste time.

They are more direct and to the point.

You may be used to hearing one thing and seeing another.

But when a man really wants you, he’ll let you know, and that’s it.

So ask yourself: has he told you that he is attracted to you or something similar at some point?

If so, believe him. When it comes to sexual intentions, nobody lies.

He wants you in his bed.

4) Is possessive or jealous

It is normal that there are other men in your life.

Friends, coworkers, and even guys who want to take you on a date.

And there is nothing wrong with having them in your life.

Especially if you’re still technically single.

But a man who really wants you will hate it when these guys show up.

Since he is not “officially” with you, it is not his place to say anything about it.

But that won’t stop him from silently disliking every moment you spend with another man.

No one knows more about how a man thinks than another man, and he will wonder what his intentions are with you.

5) He looks at you

You know that feeling when someone is watching you?

Even if they are far away or just one person in a huge crowd.

You get that feeling that someone is keeping their eyes on you, like a sixth sense.

You usually feel that when he’s around, because he’s always looking at you.

And his gaze is so intense that you feel it running through your body.

If you manage to meet his eyes, it will be a deep or daring look.

In a PsychologyToday article, psychologist Ronald Riggio mentions that,

Holding another person’s gaze a little longer than usual is a sign of interest and can even be arousing, so we usually hold it briefly. The prolonged look suggests that there is attraction and a desire to connect.»

You may even see how he watches your body or mouth.

Or take their eyes to inappropriate parts, like your cleavage or butt.

His intention is evident, he is eating you with his eyes.

6) It is seductive

All men compliment and are gallant.

Above all, on social networks where comments and compliments are thousands.

They love to talk about your eyes, your figure, your hair and how sexy and beautiful you are.

The thing is: anyone can give a compliment, and it doesn’t really mean anything.

But a man who really wants you will see things no one else sees.

Compliment your style, your personality, your opinions, your heart. And he wants you to know it.

Because it’s his way of letting you know he’s paying attention to you.

In addition, he will surely be helpful and generous to you.

And pay attention to what you like and dislike.

They are unconscious weapons of seduction for any man.

He wants you to relax and feel safe with him, so he can win you over.

7) Is tense or nervous

Maybe your man is the type who is always loaded with confidence.

He’s smart, successful, funny, and can take on the world.

But when he’s around you, he forgets what he was saying.

He gets lost in your eyes and loses the thread of the conversation.

And if you walk into the room unexpectedly, you see him lose his breath.

If you get close to him, he may move jerkily or awkwardly.

Even if his gestures are impulsive or anxious around you.

And this makes it constantly touch.

Riggio explains that,

«the other person touching their lips, face, chin, shoulders or chest, they seem like movements without reason, but since the body cannot stay calm due to sexual tension, it often happens that the same person touches . They are gestures that show that desire is imminent.»

You make him throb in a way no one else can, and he can’t fake it anymore.

8) Seek physical contact

I already mentioned that he has probably stopped respecting your personal space.

Now let’s talk about how he seeks physical contact with you.

It touches you more than normal friends are supposed to.

But never enough that you can get his attention.

Find excuses to touch your hair or brush against your body in any way possible.

Every time he walks past you, he has to grab your waist or shoulders to push you slightly out of the way.

When you greet each other, he reaches out to hug you and lingers a second too long.

If he kisses you on the cheek, his kiss will be longer and closer to your mouth.

Obviously, his intention is to satisfy his desire to be with you.

And try to let you know with these subtle gestures.

9) Change your tone of voice

When a man tries to seduce, he instinctively changes the tone of his voice.

His voice becomes deeper and deeper.

You may even speak more slowly.

This is another seduction tool that men often use to get you into bed.

10) He smiles at you

If he constantly nods or smiles too much when talking to you, it’s a sign of desire.

Riggio clarifies in this regard that,

“When we interact with anyone in a positive way, we smile frequently. If we like a person, smiles are more frequent, and if that person also awakens a sexual desire in us, smiles are almost permanent.»

11) Body language

Evaluate the way he moves when he’s around you.

When a man wants to define his domain, he opens his legs.

If he is sexually interested, he will sit or stand with his legs spread in front of you.

This is a primitive sign to prove your manhood.

Another common gesture would be to moisten your lips.

Riggio indicates that,

“When someone is sexually attracted, the tongue may become more active and more frequent wetting of the lips may occur. This slow lip licking can be an obvious and intentional sign of flirting.”

12) Sexual tension

When you’re in an environment with someone who wants you, believe me, it feels.

This type of tension is easily perceived in the environment.

Looks, jokes that hide mischief, sensual gestures, everything leads you to realize.

The psychologist Daniela Merino says about sexual tension that,

“It could be explained as a desire that for some reason does not materialize, and this non-fulfillment is what generates even more tension.”

Merino clarifies that,

“It has to do with a chemistry that is hardly avoidable, an attraction that is contained and that when released makes for probably the best sexual experiences.”

Are you going to miss it?

13) Plan dates at home with you

You may think that it is a bit boring to always have dates at home.

So why the hell is he still doing it?

Simple: because you can’t “go to the next level” if you go out to a restaurant or pub.

It is much easier to be relaxed and natural in your own environment.

Which is why he may insist on couch movie dates instead of taking you anywhere.

14) Spicy conversations

When a man has only one goal in mind, it’s hard to talk him out of it.

Any conversation you have is likely to end in a sexual comment.

Whether it’s a joke or a serious question about your sex life, anything will do.

He wants to make you understand that he is hot with you.

What turns a man on?

If a man is attracted to a woman, it will be easy to turn him on.

To further raise your temperature, the ideal is to subtly stimulate your mind.

You will only need gestures and movements. Your imagination will do the rest.

How to do it?

Use your body language: subtly seduce him with gestures. Brush your lips, or bite one of them while talking to him. Touch your neckline so that his gaze accompanies you when doing so, for example. Look at him: If he looks at you, look back with intensity. Even if you can, try to seduce him with a mischievous look. If you notice him looking at your body, show him that he doesn’t bother you. In fact, watch it yourself if you feel like it! Touch him: any excuse is good to be able to touch his…