10 Signs That May Indicate We’re in a One-sided Relationship

Many people tend to end up with a selfish partner because they crave intimacy so much that they are willing to do all the emotional heavy lifting. Psychologists warn that one-sided relationships have a huge impact on a person’s emotional and physical health, a result of constant stress and anxiety. If your inner voice sends you warning signals, you need to stop and critically assess your relationship.

we, from awesome.club, we want to remind you that love is a two-way street, so we have prepared a list of warning signs that may indicate that your love is not as involved in the relationship as you are. Follow up!

If you don’t text or call, you may be out of touch for days. And yet, all you get are dry responses that make you feel like you’re just distracting your partner from something important. Plus, you plan every date and stress to keep him entertained, as if somehow just being together wasn’t enough. One deserves to be courted as much as the other, don’t forget your worth.

Maybe the loved one never opened up about their past or asked for advice after a hard day at work. Their conversations are usually superficial and seem like those you might have with anyone you know. So how do you plan on spending the rest of your life with this person if you don’t know their true character?

Do you always feel like you can’t share problems with your partner and feel like you have to pretend to be what you’re not? Most likely you’ve noticed that something about your personality and mood attracts you and sticks to it. You don’t feel comfortable being sad or vulnerable around the other person because they will instantly get angry and tell you to “get over it”. Remember that people don’t deserve to receive your best if they aren’t by your side in your worst moments.

When you’re together, you just give in to each other’s wishes, whether it’s about choosing movies, restaurants, etc. and it seems that the person you love doesn’t care about your interests. Over time, you begin to adopt the other person’s personality and convince yourself that whatever they do is fine with you. It shouldn’t be like that. If a person really loves you, they will want to support your hobbies and do the things you like.

Do you often feel uncomfortable with your partner’s behavior in front of your friends or family? Have I ever said, “Oh, he’s in a bad mood today” or something? You are likely to see the true reflection of the other through the eyes of the people who are close to you. You think he feels bad because of you, so you want to prove him wrong. But why do you feel this way? Try talking to your friends, sometimes an outside opinion can put you on the right path.

Making plans for the two of you and keeping him entertained is really exhausting. No wonder you’re stressed, because doing a lot without getting anything in return is exhausting. You think you’ll finally get something in return if you plan an amazing trip or give the other a gift they’ve always dreamed of. And when that doesn’t happen, negative feelings like disappointment arise. Basically, it’s playing out for a partner who wouldn’t even spend five minutes making you feel special.

You don’t feel secure about your relationship and therefore you keep walking on eggshells around each other. You don’t want to say something wrong or upset him in any way. Ask yourself: why are you so attached to what makes you anxious? You should feel free to talk about problems in your relationship in a healthy way. Avoiding them for the sake of the other is not the best way.

Do you often feel guilty and don’t understand why? Your partner can be a master at playing all conflicts against you. If you’ve ever apologized for getting too emotional or for venting about something that was bothering you, it sounds like this isn’t a healthy relationship. Equal partners do not treat each other that way.

If you’re with someone who constantly makes you doubt their intelligence, beauty, or humor, you’re with the wrong person. You shouldn’t have to live up to the other person’s expectations of you, because that’s the problem. You’ll know love is real when you find someone who makes you see that there was never anything wrong with you.

You know deep down that this relationship isn’t right because you’ve put so much of your time and effort into it. A tip is to approach it in another way: the longer it lasts, the more you will be getting lost. Don’t think of time spent as “lost” or “wasted”, but as an opportunity to learn. Next time, you will know your true worth and find exactly what you need to be happy. Respecting your past is the best way to free your future.

Have you ever given your all in a relationship and received nothing in return? What was the last straw to put an end to the relationship? Comment!