10 relationship mistakes that make the other person leave us

It would be wonderful to have the person of our dreams by our side, a partner with whom we never fight. Unfortunately, that doesn’t exist. But what can we do to save a relationship? First of all, we need to look at ourselves, and not look for someone to blame for the bad situation.

Today we are going to talk about some very common situations in which people behave in a way that is unhealthy for the couple. If you recognize yourself in any of the examples, think that this is a good opportunity to change your attitude. In addition to you, the person you are with will be directly and positively affected by this change.

We often think that when we lose control of the situation the world will collapse. But that’s not true. Trust the person you are with, and show that confidence, he will be very happy.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Of course we want to be with a perfect person, but we don’t need to criticize all the time, it’s the little imperfections that we fall in love with. And what is imperfect for us may be perfect for someone else.

Since we were little, we are taught that men don’t cry. This is bullshit. Man cries, he must cry. And he also has every right to be emotional. Therefore, he should always be empathetic about matters that make the other person sensitive and not embarrass them. Otherwise the payback could be much worse for you.

Sometimes, it is very difficult not to talk about the problems we experience with our great love with loved ones. But that’s not always a good idea. Often, problems are resolved and family members cannot forget, creating a strange climate.

Nothing worse than seeing a relationship where the woman treats the man as if he were her son. In these cases, the problem is both. The ideal is that each person takes care of himself, with the certainty that he can count on the other when he needs it.

It is very difficult to trust someone who has deceived us more than once, but always expecting a bad situation is not a good alternative. Often, the problem of distrust is in those who distrust. Here, the important thing is to think that nobody is perfect, and that conflicts must be resolved and then forgotten.

Some people don’t know how to receive gifts and compliments. Either because the gifts are expensive or because they simply don’t know how to handle affection. In these cases, don’t be surprised if the other person simply stops giving gifts or showing affection. The ideal, in these cases, is to relax and let yourself be pampered.

Yes, it’s very difficult to deal with hobbies that we know involve risks, but some people just can’t live without that adrenaline. When forced to abandon this passion, they will be safe, but the flame of the relationship will be gone. So respect the other person’s wishes and show their support. After all, maybe you discover a new passion and need to feel the same support in return.

The choice regarding friends is the other’s. So even if you don’t like someone, you have nothing to do with it. We all have a need to socialize outside of relationships. More than important, this is necessary and very healthy.

We all have our share of selfishness, but it needs to be controlled. Everything we do is voluntary and the needs of others must always be respected.