We inspire confidence when actions follow our words

We inspire confidence in others when actions confirm and reiterate the words we say. “Action expresses priorities” said Mahatma Gandhi with such simple acuity… He expresses them faithfully. Actions are a sign of truth, of authenticity. Even lack of action is also an action in itself.

Actions can accompany words or they can contradict them. Words are more reliable if we accompany them with facts that point in the same direction and in the same sense. Facts that support the veracity of the phrases in which wishes, promises, regrets or intentions travel. Facts feed confidence and make us relax, so that we are not always alert. Therefore, let the tension decrease and we will be able to enjoy that relationship more.

You may relate to this part if you are someone who easily trusts people who are important to you. When you trust them, you trust based on a consistency between what they tell you and what they do for you. You stop asking for deposits and advances, being sufficient in his words. In fact, friends will come to mind who, even if they are not very expressive in their emotions, have proven to be there, by your side at all times.

Trust is given through actions that confirm our words

At the same time also People who you blindly trusted will come to your mind because of the beautiful words they one day dedicated to you.. People fond of promises who later proved not to live up to what they promised.

Words, if they are not accompanied by facts that confirm them, are fragile in the space through which they travel and in memory. They damage trust and undermine it until it becomes really difficult to regain it. You can’t trust someone who says something and then her mental GPS points another direction. Your lack of re-action also shows what you prioritize in life.

Think about those people who filled your heart with beautiful and careful words. They are so beautiful that…how can one not want to let oneself be rocked in that swing of beauty and hope? One wants to trust… one does not seek to be harmed. The shells come when there is a lot of accumulated damage, but Our genuine intention is to want to trust.

Trusting each other gives us security and peace of mind

Trust gives security to our internal world. A security that human beings need to not lose their sanity. We need congruence. Incongruence destabilizes us, makes us insecure, and makes us alert. Therefore, when someone repeatedly hurts our trust, we have to take the next step.

Look for actions that support your words. Don’t give away words lightly if you’re not sure they really express your true feelings. Don’t give them away either if you think you’re not ready to take action. You also give value to your words. When there is coherence between what you say and do, you are inspiring confidence and security in the other. In addition, you avoid that cognitive dissonance that could also be so annoying for those who practice it.

False hopes fill you with air but they do not feed you

Trust and security are fundamental pillars in any important emotional relationship. There are many friends, but FRIENDS in capital letters are not counted so easily. These are the ones you know are written in capital letters and bold, because they are next to you. Because his words and his actions have been linked in such a way that there is no possible insecurity that stalks your relationship. You know that if there are difficulties they will confront you before betraying what they have said.

Think about it, do you prefer to continue living on false hopes of acts that never arrive, of words that evaporate as soon as they stop being broadcast… or do you prefer a truth in time, although painful, but ultimately consistent with what the other feels… ? At the end of the day, it is the truth that always shows us the authentic path, not false hopes. with its deceptive horizons.

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