True love is built every day

Relationships and true love are surrounded by a large number of myths. Some believe that once you have found that person you should not worry about anything.

Later, they don’t understand why what seemed to be true love no longer works. Suddenly, boredom arrives without you realizing it and you find yourself almost running away from your partner.

The reality is that “suddenly” is not so true. What happens is that We forget that perfect relationships do not exist. No relationship of 20, 40 or 50 years has been without setbacks, but it has been made up of two people willing to build true love every day. If you want to be one of these couples, don’t forget to:

Strengthen your friendship

How satisfied you are with your partner depends a lot on how you feel with the other person. True love flourishes when there is deep understanding and understanding between two people. Otherwise obsessions, jealousy and discussions constants.

You have to take time to talk and do activities together. . Spend more time doing what you enjoy, from playing a sport to learning a new skill. This will allow you to create memories and emotions that cement your relationship.

You should also take time to talk about the things you like and dislike in your life, your new interests, new friends. True love requires that you constantly update yourselves, since we are all in a process of permanent change.

The importance of showing appreciation for your partner

I am sure that When you started your relationship, you did everything possible to show him that you felt true love.. Maybe you drove a few extra miles one day just to see it? Well, One of the secrets to having a successful relationship is to continue showing appreciation .

True love does not ask you to make enormous efforts in terms of money. I’m talking about small details that tell that person that you love them. From a compliment when she least expects it, to the time to accompany her to some place that you don’t like very much but that makes her happy. Remind him, and remind yourself, of the things that make that person your true love.

Focus on the present to improve the future together

True love is not going to stay there just because you have already found it. . Relationships go through difficult times that can tear you apart if you are not prepared. That is why it is important to lay the foundations for the relationship you want 40 years from now.

What do I mean? To stay together and get ready for the changes that come. Many couples may face the decision to separate due to work issues. In this case it is important to analyze how they will act and the benefits of doing so.

Although it may seem like a solely economic decision, separation can chill and hurt the relationship even if there is true love.. They must analyze what the separation will be like, if they are willing to have a life like that and what they need from the other person. During these separations, memories, emotions and experiences accumulate that they must be ready to face.

Pay attention to the good in life

True love overcomes bad times when there is the necessary conviction. As a couple you must be ready to live these moments, face them and leave them behind. Many couples that fail do not do so because Lack of love . What affects them is not knowing how to forget and move forward.

If they had an argument two weeks ago and resolved the issue, there is no point in bringing it up in the next fight.. True love needs to forget to move forward. It’s not that you forget to blind yourself to reality, of course if you live in a toxic relationship, forgetting can be the least positive thing. But forgetting the little unimportant things is vital…

Remember what true love is

Routine can make you forget that you are with your partner because you feel true love. The things you pay attention to are the things that gain importance in your life. Therefore you should not forget about that person. You need to remember that he is there…

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