The magic of being a woman after 40

The fourth decade, so feared by some people, is actually the culmination of the 40-year experience. Don’t be afraid to reach this age, because it also has its magic.

We no longer have the figure of 20 years old, because at 40 the stones of the road have molded our body. Our gaze is complicit, as it has been formed over years, allowing us to master the art of loving our children, our partner, our family and our friends.

We perfectly accumulate experience and youthwhich makes us master the art and management of our essence, adding life to the years that we have enjoyed and that we have left to enjoy.

Because a woman over 40 leaves a mark wherever she walks, becoming owner of her steps. She feels that she is stepping strong, transmits self-confidence and has achieved stability and an emotional and personal balance that hypnotizes.

“It takes a lot of courage to love women marked by the past, those with strong character but good hearts. It takes a lot of love to heal wounds and disappointments.

But, above all, you need to be intelligent, because they are so mature and so experienced that they no longer believe in what they feel, but in what you are willing to do for them.”

-Walter Riso-

More than 40 breaths of fresh air…

The 40s and 50s are a peculiar time, in which you find yourself between two generations that highlight the ephemerality of life, that is why we realize that we must take advantage of it and reconcile our worlds. You stop worrying about what happened and what will happen to start enjoying what is happening.

After 40 we finally understand that each person you meet has a role.

How old am I?

I’m at the age where things are looked at more calmly.but with the interest of continuing to grow.

I have the years in which dreams begin to be caressed with our fingers and illusions become hope.

I have the years in which love is sometimes a crazy flare, eager to be consumed in the fire of a desired passion. And others a haven of peace, like the sunset on the beach.

How old am I? I don’t need to dial with a numberWell, my desires were achieved, the tears that I shed along the way when I saw my illusions broken…
They are worth much more than that.

What does it matter if I turn twenty, forty, or sixty!
What matters is the age I feel.

I have the years I need to live free and without fear.
To continue without fear along the path, because I carry with me the experience acquired and the strength of my desires.

How old am I? Who cares that!
I have the years necessary to lose fear and do what I want and feel.

-José Saramago-

The magic of the moment

Many women over 40 have already found themselves in complicated situations. They may have been disowned and rejected by their society. Perhaps they have experienced betrayals and disappointments that have made them mature. Or they have been able to feel on their skin the tear of dishonorable separations, abandonments and contempt.

They are forged in the heat of battle and wounded by the most unexpected arrows. They have carried a large part of the weight of life on their backs and, for this reason, women over 40 have developed a seventh sense that allows them to go further, stay calm and reconcile with life.

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Somehow, The woman over 40 has taken an important step in the search for love now I know loves herself much more than what it did a decade ago.

They are real, attractive and self-confident women.

“The women of my generation are the best. And period. Today they are in their forties, and they are beautiful, very beautiful, but also serene, understanding, sensible and, above all, devilishly seductive, this despite their incipient crow’s feet or that affectionate cellulite that dominates their thighs, but that makes it so human, so real…

Beautifully real.”

-Sharon Stone at 48 years old-

The woman over 40 years old is very aware of her mistakes. And, far from being a burden to her, she has assumed them, understands them and has let them go. Therefore, At this moment in life, mistakes are seen as great teachers that allowed him to grow and mature.

Likewise, they are real women. Because, Despite their defects, crow’s feet, cellulite, etc., they are capable of feeling very good about themselves. Which makes them look extremely attractive. Thus, they demonstrate that beauty and attractiveness depend, to a large extent, on attitude and state of mind.

On the other hand, They are complete women, because life has taught them who they are, what they are worth and what they are capable of. They are no longer looking for their better half, they understand that a couple is not made up of two halves, but rather two independent and free people, who accompany each other to grow together from their own individuality.

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Finally, They are women with many dreams and goals to fulfill.. They still have a path to travel, but experience will allow them to do so with greater security.