Stay if you come to add to my life, otherwise go your way

Surrounding ourselves with people who inspire positive energy and help us build our lives is essential. Contact with “toxic” people, regardless of the relationship that exists, can alter our emotional state. We reflect on this below.

Don’t let your essence be lost. Try not to get lost among people, because we increasingly don’t know those around us. Do not reveal yourself or get rid of your essence even if what you are experiencing torments you. Do not change or transform yourself if it is not because you have learned a good lesson.

Your heart is beautiful like this, don’t allow people to subtract or divide your life. Love your interior and improve yourself every day, but do not allow yourself to lose your essence. If she disappears, you will be just someone else and those who love and value you will not be able to distinguish you.

Remember that what makes you cry makes you as special as what makes you laugh. Realizing this is a liberation in itself. Cover your essence, don’t let circumstances tear it apart, protect it from the cold.

The pain caused by what nullifies us is sometimes unbearable.

No one wants to have people by their side who nullify them or who boycott their personal growth. We all want people by our side who help us add experiences and good feelings.

However, generally not everything is black or white. There will be moments in which someone will deduct to some degree from our well-being but others in which it adds so much that it compensates for all of the above.

It’s like yin and yang, sadness and joy, night and day. Successes require errors in the same way as Adding would be meaningless if there was never anything to subtract. And that’s how we people are: sometimes white, sometimes black and, at other times, colored.

Nobody is totally good or totally bad

Even knowing that we cannot be all or nothing, we cannot expose our well-beingwe have to protect it from damage that may be avoidable and foreseeable.

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For that we usually have to use a kind of emotional scale. To one side we put everything generated by others that is negative and that is left over. On the other side we place the good and the positive that we can find on our path.

As is obvious, we will have to emotionally weigh each person separately always taking into account the physical and emotional situation of the affected people, as well as, of course, the context.

It is clear that it is not easy to use our scale, since there are hundreds of factors that we cannot control and that are totally subjective. So why do we judge good or bad so lightly?

“There is nothing better than finding yourself again and forgiving the other person, whether they are right or not, because when people do painful things, they usually do them because at that moment they couldn’t do it better, because they were afraid or for whatever reason.” . So, forgiving is a wonderful thing.”

-Marwan-

Be a fair person, do not lose your essence

Sometimes being immersed in deep pain precipitates us into the ravine of prejudices and clichés. When this happens, we tend to become blinded by the pain of our wounds and not by the goodness that characterizes us in other circumstances.

Through forgiveness and understanding we can get anyone to join even starting from their bad actions or words. We are the ones who validate others. Therefore, we are the ones who choose how we want to learn.

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Becoming aware that we often judge too happily will help us eliminate what is truly harmful and negative from our lives. Thinking about it this way, in the long run we will never regret being coherent and fair people.

Do not label or judge others, forgive and take their bad actions as an opportunity to continue growing and learning. Your essence will be the best protection and, if that were not enough, you will always have it within your reach.