Remember is to live again…

Because When relationships end we refuse to leave things in the past and we insist on remembering over and over again what we experienced? Sometimes it is because we feel hurt or hurt, especially when a relationship that seemed to promise us happiness has been frustrated and one day it just ended.

We might say we refuse because we are resentful or too proud to forgive. However, in many cases We are not sincere because what we really do not want is forget that person, that couple whom we have loved so much.

We really never stop fully loving someone who one day we love passionately… And even more so when we have had to give up for this or that, because it is also true, sometimes even though we want it very much, there are relationships that have no future, despite the love.

Remember to live the past again

It has happened to me, and I see myself in time rescuing from oblivion someone who seems to always be there, who emerges in my days of nostalgia, in my days of enthusiasm. This is because when I feel sad I would like to go back to those days when I felt especially happy… And when I feel overflowing with happiness, I would also like to go back to the days when I could smile with that someone who is no longer here.

I feel connected to a thousand stories that I learn through life. More than one love has overwhelmed someone, leaving them with a memory that at times, humans we are, we would like to leave behind… What’s the point of remembering? Maybe it’s of no use, but… Remembering is living again, someone told me days ago, and it’s true… Have you not seen yourself remembering something with such a feeling? Determined to recapture that special moment, that smile, or that happy or perhaps unhappy memory…

The trace of memory

Life with its accelerated routine constantly distances me from these reflections, but I am not afraid to say that it is not that I forget or have forgotten… It is, in this case, thinking without thinking about who you have loved… Why? Why reflect again and again on what happened, on what was left behind and will not return? Sometimes I think that I insist on it, that We insist on it because we secretly long for those very especially happy days. Days with someone who will always seem to us, even in the distance of time, very important and who life seems to have taken from us.

Remembering is sometimes the pleasure of feeling in love again as we once were.. It is the sometimes unacknowledged desire to return to the things that were our life and that because they were important we remember them again and again. Because it is true, nothing is more burned into our hearts than that love that we could not retain.

A new beginning

Although it may not seem like that, memory can help you face the future. Because the memory must be assimilated as part of the experience that will make us grow as people. Assuming the past does not mean forgetting it, it means learning from it.

The past cannot be changed, but it can be the basis for enjoying and controlling our present and for building a better future that makes us happier. That’s why, Remembering is not bad, as long as it does not prevent us from continuing to move forward.

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