Relationship with Cancer: It Can Be Sensational

Relationship with Cancer: Cancerians (or Cancerians, if you prefer) are very sensitive and caring people. A Cancer in love falls in love quickly and with a thud. Prone to giving their all, they rush to compromise. Less likely than other signs to give up when the going gets tough, Cancers are very loyal and determined to work things out.

A Cancer in Love is Complex

Cancerians are champions of their loved ones. They will fiercely protect and defend their lovers. Known for their sensitivity, Cancerians in love can be very sentimental when things are going well; however, if things get tough, your feelings will be quickly hurt.

They are careful with themselves and may not easily show their vulnerabilities when starting a love affair. However, when handled with care and respect, they flourish, giving lifelong devotion and loyalty.

A Cancer in love is sentimental

Extremely sentimental, they tend to notice the little things and control things better than other signs. Cancers are easily labeled “burden rats” for the simple reason that their deeply rooted memories link them to external things and they feel better when surrounded by specific things kept “just like that”. This can be easily remembered by your lovers, and showing respect for a Cancer’s belongings will make them love you even more.

relationship with Cancer: in love is serious

Respect and devotion are very important to Cancerians. They are usually not weird or rude. Their love style is one of constant stillness which is very attractive in the long run. Your current in your river of passion is deep and swift. They are also excellent parents, bringing their own sensitive parenting brand into the mix, which likely enhances their partners’ habits.

A Cancer in Love is Sensitive

Easy to talk to, Cancers are very empathetic and their sensitivity makes them very attractive and easy to love. You will want to protect your Cancer from the big bad world and they will appreciate the gesture of protection. Likewise, they are also very protective of their loved ones and can easily be misunderstood in their motives.

They simply want their loved one to be okay and are willing to drastically change their own life to ensure the well-being of the relationship. When they find your match, you will be treated with respect, kindness and deep love.

Cancers are often adept at nurturing, and one of the ways this often manifests itself is through cooking. Many Cancerians take pleasure in preparing homemade food for their loved ones. It’s typically a more intimate act than other signs who sometimes cook just to show off.

If your Cancerian offers to cook for you, then it’s safe to say he’s pretty serious about you. Obviously, not all Cancerians cook, but when they do, it’s a very positive indication that they care about you.

relationship with cancer how to seduce

There are two distinct ways to seduce a Cancer. The first is to tune them in and the second is to catch them when they are in a natural ecstasy.

Depending on your timing, this can make them incredibly easy or incredibly difficult to seduce. This is the first of many contradictions surrounding this complex sign.

Before we get the handcuffs and baby oil, let’s talk briefly about his personality. This is possibly the least understood sign, and understanding them will make things a lot easier.

Cancer is complicated people!

The good news is that Cancers are very predictable and consistent people once you know what to expect from them. The bad news is that this is a “love them or hate them” personality with very little in between.

These are emotional and caring people, usually very passionate, although often very reserved until they get to know and trust you. They are super intuitive and usually very sensitive to fake people.

Most of them feel they have been bitten by partners in the past and (especially when older) can put up some pretty high walls due to this, and are quite pessimistic when it comes to evaluating potential partners.

the good things

In many ways, Cancers are the perfect lover. Loyal, caring, supportive, fun, passionate, practical and sexy. If your personality works with theirs (more on that in a second), chances are they’re perfect for you.

No other sign can excel in so many facets of a mature relationship, keeping everything fresh and exciting. This is a sign that is highly likely to be both a reliable housewife/provider and a bed animal… a rare combination indeed!

the bad things

Much has been written about cancer and its mood swings. As with most personality traits, you can choose to consider them good or bad (most Cancers are well aware of them and are tired of hearing about them, so this is not a good conversation starter)

Their moods make them very exciting lovers, offering a variety of needs, wants and preferences at different times. If you are able to empathize and enjoy meeting your partner’s needs as they arise, they make exceptionally satisfying partners (Scorpio and Pisces are perfect here)

It’s fair to say, however, that Cancer is a partner who needs a little “care”, so if you’re too self-centered (Aries and Leo, watch out!), you might want to think carefully and be prepared to change in this area ( as it’s really not optional). In return, they are almost always willing to take care of you, probably more so than your parents did!

You probably know from your own personality if this is the kind of partner you want. While very occasionally you may find an independent Cancer (perhaps heavily influenced by fire or air in their birth chart), the vast majority fit the above generalization.

Relationship with Cancer

Cancer takes relationships seriously. They give their all and expect the same in return. It’s not a good person to expect a casual relationship without a lot of headache and stress on both sides. This leads to an interesting point about cancers…

They change as they get older. Seducing a 20-year-old Cancer is very different from seducing a 40-year-old Cancer. They start out reasonably confident and, after a few inevitable bad experiences, end up being very suspicious. No other sign undergoes such a radical and predictable transformation in this regard.

Cancer and Romance

If I had a dime for every time someone said you just have to be romantic to seduce a Cancer. It can be true sometimes, but it’s really missing the point, so to go off on another brief tangent:

Cancer sometimes feels particularly alone and vulnerable. At these times, they want to feel loved and safe. Leaving a love note under the windshield wiper will have more impact than a candlelit dinner if it’s done at the right time.

If you’re intuitive enough to sense when they’re feeling this way, you can score massive romance points, even if you’re not a romantic person. If you’re naturally romantic, that’s fine too, but the thing is, they don’t need a romantic partner in the traditional sense.

Timing is everything here. Leaving a love note when they’re feeling on top of the world and in the mood to laugh and party won’t score a fraction of the points. This highlights the real challenge with cancers…