Miley Cyrus: the feminist message she sends us with the song Flowers

What do the lyrics of the song Flowers by Miley Cyrus say about which so much is talked about? The lyrics of this song not only talk about love, but about the self-care that a woman deserves to give herself.

The message of the song Flowers: the benefits of loving yourself better

As you can see in this video, the lyrics of the song Flowers, has a message for all women:

The most important message of the song Flowers by Miley Cyrus is that women must learn to love each other without waiting for a partner to love us.What benefits does this change have for women?

According to Coral Herrera, a Spanish feminist communicator known for her analysis and criticism of the myth of romantic love, loving oneself is closely related to the way in which others love us and the way in which we allow ourselves to be loved. According to the author, when you start to love yourself, when your self-esteem improves, important things happen. This is Coral Herrera’s list of the 35 most important things that change when a woman begins to love herself better:

You learn to distinguish between good and bad treatment. You trust yourself. You learn to take care of yourself and protect yourself. You work what you have to work to be happier. You don’t allow anyone to make you feel bad. You stop getting on your knees and you You stand up to interact with others. You learn to set limits for others so they don’t abuse you. You move away from people who don’t know how to love you well. You are less understanding with toxic people. You move away from violent people. You learn to see your failures without beating yourself up, and you begin to do loving self-criticism to live better. You begin to look for a way to have a good life, a good life for you and the people you love. You stop demanding or begging for love because you know you deserve a relationship in which you are reciprocated. You stop being submissive and obedient when you fall in love. prioritize your well-being, not your need to live a romance. You cultivate your personal development to grow and be a better person. You take care of your people and nurture your affective relationships. You take care of your sexual and emotional health. You enjoy more the love you feel for others. You learn to distinguish who loves you and who doesn’t. You make your own tools to free yourself from the patriarchies that you internalized. You free yourself from the fear of loneliness, because you learn to keep yourself company. You learn to say “no” without guilt and without fear. You leave your partner if he misbehaves with you without sitting down to wait for the miracle. You become aware of all your virtues and you are able to speak well of yourself in front of others. You avoid situations or people that hurt you. You go more slowly in your romantic relationships to get to know the other person well and to know if the relationship is going or not going. You congratulate yourself on your personal achievements, whether big or small. You build healthier, more egalitarian and balanced relationships that make you feel good and contribute to You take more care of your relationship with pleasure and enjoyment, and you stop putting the other person’s pleasure before yours. You realize that the only person who can change is you and you stop wanting to change others. You know more certainty what you want and what you don’t want. You commit to yourself and take much more responsibility for your well-being and happiness. You want to meet new people and you feel more secure when it comes to having new friends. You learn to show yourself love to yourself: gifts, tributes, details, tasty meals, hours of sleep, time to do what you like the most… You enjoy sex, love and life more, because you value your time and well-being much more.

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Miley Cyrus (Flowers): the lyrics of the song in Spanish

Ours was good, ours was gold
Of those dreams that cannot be sold
We were good together, until we stopped being
We built a home and watched it burn.

Hmm, I didn’t want to leave you.
I didn’t want to lie.
I started to cry, but then I remembered that I
can i buy flowers
write my name in the sand
talk to myself for hours
See things you don’t understand
can i take you dancing
And I can hold my own hand
Yeah I can love me better than you

i can love myself better
I can love myself better, baby
i can love myself better
I can love myself better, baby

I paint my nails cherry red
They match the roses you left
No regrets, no regrets
I forgive every word you said

Ooh, I didn’t want to leave you, baby
I didn’t want to fight
I started to cry, but then I remembered that I

can i buy flowers
write my name in the sand
Talk to myself for hours, yeah
See things you don’t understand
I can take me dancing, yeah
And I can hold my own hand
Yeah I can love me better than you

i can love myself better
I can love myself better, baby
i can love myself better
I can love myself better, baby
i can love myself better
I can love myself better, baby
I can love myself better, ooh, I

Ooh, I didn’t want to leave you
I didn’t want to fight
I started to cry, but then I remembered that I

I can buy myself flowers (uh, uh)
Write my name in the sand (ooh)
Talk to myself for hours (yeah)
See things you don’t understand (better than you)
I can take me dancing (yeah)
And I can hold my own hand
Yes, I can love myself better than
Yeah I can love me better than you

i can love myself better
I can love myself better, baby (oh)
i can love myself better
I can love me better, baby (better than you)
i can love myself better
I can love myself better, baby
I can love myself better, I