Love me when I least deserve it, that’s when I need it the most

Love me. It is in our nature to ask others to love us. We need to feel accepted and understood at all times. That is why it is so necessary that, in bad times, you be there even if you don’t always understand it.

If a person does not deserve to be loved because their behavior is erratic and confusing, perhaps the reality is that they are asking for vital help. which he needs because he is unable to breathe. That is to say, in bad times, that is when they need our help the most, and there is nothing like wanting with all your soul to lift your head and see the wonderful green meadow that is life.

As Mother Teresa of Calcutta says, the exercise of loving does not always lead to understanding and joy. Sometimes, it involves pain and sadness, but rest assured that, over time, the person for whom you are giving so much will be aware of how much you give up for them and will reward you as you deserve when you least expect it.

Love me in my worst moments

Love me. Maybe it’s unfair to ask, but Whenever a person goes through a bad time, rest assured that they need you more than ever.. The most turbulent times are usually those that bring out the worst in us. Bad answers, unpleasant gestures, hostile faces, ungratefulness… However, all of these can be signs that we need help. When emotions burn inside us and we express it through the fire of anger, only love can put out the fire of our afflictive emotions. Love me when I least deserve it because that will be when I need it the most.

Depression, sadness and pain can turn a human being into someone erratic and aimless. Their loss of vision prevents them from seeing the whole. So dark does his life become that even asking for help is an exercise of true courage.

When a person is immersed in the deepest darkness, the more erratic their behavior is, the more lost they feel and that is when they need you the most. It is something that we must never forget, since only then will we be of help to the loved one who has taken a wrong path. Instead of ostracizing the person for his behavior, it will be better to reconsider whether his actions are the product of suffering that he expresses in an inappropriate way.

Love me without asking for anything in return

Love me. How unfair it can seem to ask someone to love you unconditionally.However, it is an act that does not need a response. You must give everything you have without expecting compensation, since it is something that is offered sincerely, naturally and spontaneously.

That’s why, The people who deserve it the least are those who need the most love.. How can you expect to be reciprocated by someone you have never loved? It is impossible, because it is a feeling that he never experienced. However, you can show him the way.

How can you expect to be reciprocated by someone who doesn’t love themselves? It is complicated that a person who does not value himself can love you. But you should try to teach him to feel useful, showing him your most sincere feelings and your most intimate affection. Teaching by example is a very powerful way to show others how to act. If we intend to show love, let’s act with love. Little by little, our actions will affect the other person.

It will be a great exercise for you to begin to value yourself. Don’t expect anything in return. Just love them even if they don’t deserve it, because you may not believe it, but in reality, they are worthy of your love. They simply don’t know how to achieve it, and they get lost along the way.

Love, compassion and Buddhism

From Buddhism, love is one of the fundamental aspects to achieve happiness. The Buddhist definition of love is the aspiration and desire that all beings be happy and have the causes of happiness. When referring to all beings, family, friends, neutral people and even our “enemies” are included. Buddhism does not distinguish. We all need and deserve love.

Compassion would be another aspect of love. In this case it is defined as the aspiration and desire that all beings be free from suffering and its causes. Again, it includes all beings. The purest and most genuine love expects nothing in return. Giving love involves understanding that we are all part of a whole. If we are happy seeing others enjoying pure and genuine joy, we will have understood a fundamental aspect of being human: we all deserve to be happy.

The purity of love

Love is the purest feeling that human beings have.. It comes directly from the heart and soul, without resentment, without pain, without conditions and without rest. You cannot play with him to receive perks. You simply have to let it flow to others, even those you do not consider worthy.

Sometimes, a smile, a good gesture, an act of faith or a little love can cause enormous cataclysms in sad people, lost people or toxic beings.

Love is the greatest gesture of generosity there is. Therefore, those people who yell at you Love meEven if you think they don’t deserve it, they actually need it, because it is something that can bring them back to life. That loved one who feels lost in life, the only thing he needs is help from the people who care about him. Therefore, even though they do not deserve it, they should be loved.

Precisely in their moments of greatest darkness and torment is when they need your company, sincerity, understanding and affection. Do not forget. Give them what you have whenever they tell you Love me.

You might be interested…

Images courtesy of Puuung