Life has taught me that I should not give up my essence to please anyone else.

We do not exist to impress the world, but to be happy and fulfilled.. Now, there are stages in our lives in which we need to prioritize, think that we are going to surprise this or that one and that they are going to envy or admire us.

There are times when we want to capture attention and be the kings of the party. However, after certain ages, What is really important for us is to live our lives without standing out to others.only for ourselves and our environment.

Someone once said that it’s nice to have money to buy things we want, but It’s nicer to have things that money can’t buy.

“There are people who spend their lives doing things they hate, to get money they don’t need to buy things they don’t want, to impress people they don’t like”

-A stranger-

What life is teaching you…

They say that life teaches you “Who doesn’t, who does and who never”. There is no need for bad experiences or resentments, we just learn that those who wait will be disappointed.

You should stop worrying about what others expect of you.

“I’m at a point in my life where I no longer need to impress anyone. I am who I am, without caring what others think of me.
I don’t need disguises, I don’t need to cheat or pretend. Because I can be who I really am.
I don’t need to make people laugh or make people believe that I never cry. I don’t need to always be strong, nor always be nice.
I don’t need to be the same as anyone else, and above all I accept myself as I am. With my virtues, but also with my defects.
Because I may not be perfect, but I am always me.
“I accept and love who I am, and who I can become.”

-Anonymous-

This is the moment when you take charge of your desires, guide your life, have your own initiatives, do not praise others excessively and share your thoughts freely. Let’s say that it is not only the beginning of your emotional freedom, but also of your identity.

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Why don’t we need to impress anyone but ourselves?

If we disguise ourselves, our essence dies.

The unhappiest people in this world are the people who care too much about what other people think.

Each one is unique and exceptional. Nothing and no one deserves that we hide our true way of being, our emotions or our thoughts. Now, it is also true that everything has a limit, you cannot say or do the first thing that comes to mind, you have to be careful not to hurt others.

Almost all of us come to that moment in life when what others think no longer matters to us., because we realize that what is truly important is us. Now, it is paradoxical that a self-confident and carefree person “for what they will say” It is the one that leaves a real mark.

Let’s say that whoever takes care of themselves becomes someone purer, more real, more complete. In short, the only way to be an unforgettable person of steel is not to try. Being natural and working on our true desires is the key to being happier.