I’m not afraid of anything anymore

A girl who was very afraid looked out through the bars of a window… she watched the world go by, without daring to cross those bars… But life wanted her to learn and although for a long time she did not want to come out of her hiding place, life made sure that the world came to her knocking on her door.

As she was a polite girl, she always ended up opening… fearful, First it reared its head and finally ended up opening its doors to all kinds of creatures.: elves, wizards, fairies disguised as witches and witches disguised as fairies. Sometimes, she was hypnotized by the magician’s games, who in the end ended up disappearing, leaving the girl alone and sad…

Sometimes, she was surprised by a fairy full of beautiful words that became darts straight to her heart, other times she felt afraid of a strange woman who might not be so strange but who scared her…

Perhaps because the false fairies had already knocked on their door, the wonderful wizards who promised to turn everything they touched into gold or the funny elves who were there as soon as they were gone… everything started to change inside…

Little by little the girl began to distinguish the fairies from the witches, the false wizards from those who really were, and although on some occasions she was still wrong… one day she felt deeply happy, with a happiness that overflowed her. and that is…

She was no longer afraid of anything, she no longer contemplated the world from the window, because now she was the one knocking on other girls’ doors. afraid to teach them everything she had learned from all those guests who had shown up at her door for so long.

Since then she always told herself and repeated to other girls “I’m not afraid of anything anymore”…

How to stop fearing?

If you feel identified with the words of this story. If you feel afraid to face life, others, the rest of the world, don’t worry or be embarrassed for your fear. We all fear something or many things at the same time; But life, experience teaches us little by little, it strengthens us and no matter how much you try to hide, life always knocks on your door.

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So do not hesitate to carry out some of the recommendations below:

Live experiences

Experience is the only thing that helps us grow, learn of our mistakes; Don’t be afraid of making mistakes or of others making mistakes with you. We all make mistakes not once but many times.

“The purpose of life is to live it, to enjoy the experience to the extreme, to reach out impatiently and without fear to live newer and more enriching experiences”

-Eleanor Roosevelt-

Stop regretting what you have done

At one point you thought about it that way, because of your age, your circumstances, your personality and that’s it. Let go of ballast, don’t carry the failures. Once you’ve learned, all they do is limit you.

Reflect without martyring yourself

If you feel that someone has hurt you or that you have hurt someone, reflect on it, forgive yourself or others and continue on the path. It is not good to have our interior full of resentments that lead us nowhere.

Consult your loved ones and make the final decision

Many times we find ourselves lost, there are people who, in addition to loving us, have the ability to calm us down with just two words. Listen to them and in the end be the one who makes the decision.

There is no one better than yourself to know yourself. Many times you will have two paths and only one to choose from. Choose after reflection; No martyr yourself with… What if I had chosen this other path? What’s done is done and at the time you believed it was the best choice.