I do want a serious relationship

All relationships can be serious, even if they are short or ephemeral. Love is serious and should always be accompanied by respect.

We distinguish between serious relationships and relationships that are not, but what does a serious relationship mean? In reality, for each person it means a different thing: commitment, honesty, exclusivity, loyalty… But a relationship should always be serious. What’s the point of a non-serious relationship?

New technologies seem to bring us closer, but the reality is that they allow us to create a chasm with other peoplein which we are no longer us, but a person who has a mask, a disguise, to appear better, to hide and not show who he is.

“Stay with a love that gives you answers and not problems. Security and not fear. Confidence and no more doubts.”

-Paulo Coelho-

If I interact with a person I want them to act seriously, with respect and honesty. That doesn’t mean that I want to possess anyone, that I want exclusivity from anyone. It means that If I tell you the truth, I hope you tell me the truth too, if I respect you, I want you to do it toothat if I let you live in your freedom I will also live mine and you must respect it.

A serious relationship is…

By seriousness it is necessary to understand frankness, truth, freedom, respect, sincerity, because a relationship is important, whatever it is, it is unique. A serious relationship is many things and, above all, it is:

A relationship in which you are yourself

If you are involved with someone in any way, as a casual or long-term partner, you must be yourself, bare your mind, do not hide behind veils and veils of appearances. We tend to dress for others, to say what is supposed to please the other person, but where are we?

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A relationship in which you commit

It doesn’t matter if it lasts an hour, a week or five years, A relationship with another person involves a commitment to respect and honesty. towards the other person. And if there is sex, more respect is necessary, because you are getting naked in front of another person who is also getting naked in front of you. Doesn’t that seem serious enough to you?

A relationship in which you respect the other

If you are going to run away once you have managed to seduce someone, it is because you are afraid of yourself, of committing to who you are. Even if it is a one-night relationship, respect is essential. Explain what you want, be clear, no one will be able to claim anything if you have acted respectfully.

“Building solid and honest relationships involves mixing love, conviction and commitment in equal parts.”

-Walter Riso-

A relationship between brave people

A brave person is someone who has the courage to show themselves as they are and for you to see it. That he is not afraid to feel and that if he feels something for you he tells you, he does not push you away for fear of himself. A brave person is one who, if he wants to see you, sees you, does not take detours to look good and appear insensitive. If a brave man kisses you, he does it with all his heart, with all his soul.

The virtues of a serious relationship

A serious relationship has many virtues, the problem is that we choose the ones we want, the ones we feel like, but we cannot despise some and embrace others to create the concept of a serious relationship that seems good to us, because Relating to another person is something serious in itself.

TRUE

Even a relationship in which I only want sex with another person is serious. If I want to sleep with you one night and disappear, I tell you, so you can choose, and I don’t hide behind a thousand lies that make you feel good just so you agree.

“Emotions are experienced, felt, recognized, but only a part of them can be expressed in words or concepts.”

-Laura Esquivel-

Coherence

If you tell me you love me, you don’t disappear after two days, you don’t avoid seeing me, you don’t stop calling me, or responding to messages, you don’t run away, because I’m not to blame for what you are. If you tell me that you love me and I feel the same, we both do our best to share our time.for looking for us and finding us.

Freedom

Being free is not being a coward, Being free means mutually respecting each other’s spaces., respect what we are, what we are not, our tastes and our concerns and those of other people. If someone burdens you because they do not respect your freedom, perhaps the one who does not respect themselves is you.

For all this, I do want a serious relationship, I don’t understand “joking” or non-serious relationships, I don’t understand lack of respect, cowardice or running away..