Alone with your pleasure… to enjoy a date with you!

The history of female pleasure is marked by a long list of nonsense, censorship, marginalization. It is never too late to explore our most intimate desires and find out what we like, how, when and how much…

How to enjoy sex… with yourself?

Here are a few basic tips for enjoying your own body, not necessarily in a purely sexual sense. They are small moments of personal space with which we can discover new sensations and emotions.

1. Take the agenda and write down a day

When I arrive, take a bathPut on oils or perfumes, makeup if you use… Buy candles and put on music. Important to have a mirror. Better two: one full-length and one hand.

2. Caress yourself, undress little by little

Pamper every corner of your body. Use feathers, silks, and other soft fabrics. Caress your breasts. When you are very relaxed and start to get aroused, pay attention to your crotch.

Get closer to the clitoris little by little, gently, acknowledge it, feel what reaction each caress, each gesture produces in you.

Look to you. You are beautiful. All people, when we get excited, we get more beautiful.

3. Look around the clitoris

Detect those points where you feel more pleasure, even if it is little, and dedicate yourself to them. Play them in different ways. In circles, swings, strong, slow, with pressure. With light friction. Through the outer lips, with a pillow… Feel how your temperature changes, your breathing and what you want at all times.

listen to yourself gasps. The sound of your pleasure will surely increase it.

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4. Keep going until you have enough

No hurry. Orgasm is not a goal. If it comes, welcome, and if today, for whatever reason, your body doesn’t want it, feel how the pleasure is also delicious.

maybe your mind unaccustomed to abandoning herself to pleasure, she reminds you over and over again of things that you must take care of. He might even ask what the hell you’re doing.

Take a deep breath and come back to your body with patience, love and empathy towards you.

5. Throw out the “boycotters” with this trick

Take a piece of chocolate or a glass of wine and invite your conscience, in the image of your mother, whoever wants to spoil your experience, to take it on the balcony. And she keeps experimenting.

Try squeezing the buttocks and perineum, to pull the abdomen and diaphragm up. To hold your breath. Try different postures.

And above all: relax, listen to yourself and enjoy.