You don’t have to lose to appreciate it, you have to value it so you don’t lose

Tell me, why let it go and then realize that smile was really charming?

Before letting go of that warm hug, value who is by your side looking for a way, perhaps confused, to demonstrate how much they care about your company.

It’s easy to want to stay when everything is going well, many see only what the eyes allow them to see. Oh how rare it is for someone to see our best and who can see our beautiful soul.

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How difficult it is to find someone who encourages us to be better, who motivates us to go after our dreams. Sometimes we look too much at our neighbor’s grass and forget to water our own.

We are distracted looking at what others have and we forget to notice that someone who is always there in the worst moments of our lives. A someone who smiles with his soul and not just with his lips, that person who makes you laugh easily and who sees grace in his clumsy way of being.

We forget, through any carelessness, to value the good morning in the form of I love you and in that “take care” as who actually wants to take care of you. We leave the hug with the smell of longing to be lost and as a consequence we don’t value those who really care about us.

With those who don’t measure efforts to help you, who leave excuses aside and unmark that appointment so they can see you. We forget who holds our hand in storms, who prays for our life as someone who cares about it. We don’t value the tired good night at the end of the day and the daily efforts.

That’s why I reaffirm: You don’t have to lose to appreciate it, you don’t have to let go of what is good for us so that only then, we realize the mistake in not valuing what is beautiful and sincere.

You don’t have to miss a smile to then realize how much he brought peace to your heart, let go of those who reach out to us to notice how much it sustained us in the storms. Notice who always makes a point of being close, who doesn’t make excuses and doesn’t use the so cliché “lack of time”.

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There’s always someone willing to be light company and make an address. There is always someone wanting to take us on a journey in their world like someone who wants to show that the new is beautiful and not scary as it seems.

Don’t wait to lose to realize how much you could have made it work, how much that good morning made a difference in your day and that good night made you laugh shyly like someone who tickles your heart, remembering you before bed . Your neighbor’s grass will always look greener if you keep not watering yours.

A tired heart doesn’t go back, it can still beat, but out of love for itself, it decides not to go back to the same mistakes, it doesn’t want to relive the same wounds, even if everything seems, in theory, to be different. So, don’t wait to lose to realize how much that someone colored your days and held your hand in the gales of this life.

Thamilly Rozendo