9 Cases When Our Mother Was Right, But We Didn’t Listen To Her

During adolescence, many people behave in a cold and even rude way. And certainly at this stage of life, many of us thought that our parents didn’t know anything about life. Psychologists claim that this is normal. Puberty is a difficult period in which the individual tries to find his own identity and put established rules and parental love to the test. But the truth is that it’s better to be rebellious at 15 than to be a quiet teenager and then, in your 30s, start to go awry and make serious mistakes.

O awesome.club selected quotes from mothers whose meaning we only understand after becoming adults.

When you’re 13, this sentence can seem like the dumbest thing in the world. After all, why would classmates envy her ridiculous haircut or bizarre hat? But you have to look at the situation in a different way.

Of course, the other teenagers didn’t envy his haircut or his hat, but they perfectly saw his courage in wearing a certain hairstyle or piece of clothing. Instead of being complex, you continued to be yourself. And that’s what caused envy. All the bullying directed at you was just an attempt to bring you down. And your mother understood that perfectly.

In childhood, this phrase caused sadness and disgust. Also because, for the mother, “changing tasks” meant taking a break from cleaning and going to the market. But only with time did we come to understand how right Mom was.

During the workday, switching tasks that require different skills is what helps to maintain productivitypreventing us from diving into the routine of monotonous work.

At 15, going out in a woolly hat or thick tights can be a real nightmare, because no one at your school wears those things.

But after 20, maternal care becomes fully understandable, and we fondly remember mom’s insistence on seeing us well wrapped up🇧🇷 And we were even surprised by the perseverance and persuasiveness she demonstrated. After all, nowadays we don’t even think about going outside during the winter without proper protection.

In adolescence, we interpret this phrase as a simple attempt to reassure ourselves. And we may not find it very effective. But the truth is that the mother is absolutely right in this case too.

When we are older and throw ourselves into work and studies, trying to figure out what we are really capable of and making plans for the future, love often appears unexpectedly. And it’s wonderful!

First, we want to start attending school as soon as possible. Then finish it as quickly as possible and enter university. And once in higher education, we are anxious to enter the job market, and when that happens, we understand that there was no reason to be in a hurry.

The present is precious, and it will never be repeated. We should enjoy the time instead of wanting to rush it. Some people understand maternal advice at 20, while others only at 45. In that case, the sooner is always the better.

At 16, any love problem seems like a catastrophe. And we think that our mother doesn’t understand anything, and that life will never get better. What remains is to lock yourself in your room and cry in solitude.

But again the mother was absolutely right. Life goes on, and even if you come across the wrong people along the waythe time will come when that special person will appear in your life.

It’s a banal phrase that almost everyone has heard from their mother at least once in their lives. And when we grow up, those words make perfect sense.

At 14, we think we know everything, and that the parents were stuck in time, not knowing anything. But at 20 and 30, we realized that we were nothing more than children, and that there is still a lot to learn🇧🇷 And that Mom, as always, was absolutely right.

Most teenagers heard their mothers say that phrase when they forbade them to do something. And children and young people almost always interpret it as a simple excuse. After all, mom is out of everything!

But when we have children of our own, we become fully aware of and experience all maternal concerns and anxieties🇧🇷 And those words stop sounding so silly.

At 14, we have a hard time believing those words. How can we thank our mother for insisting that we wear braces or do stupid exercise in the morning when sleep is at its peak?

But when we grew up, we understood that everything she did was for our health, for our development and for our well-being🇧🇷 It was one of the many ways she had to express her love and concern.

It is for these and many others that today we must say: “Thank you, Mom!”

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