7 Nearly Invisible Signs of Infidelity You Shouldn’t Ignore

Unfortunately, some people just can’t be faithful. Even so, everyone – and even them – wants to find their better half to have a happy life together. But of course, when there are suspicions, it is always best to find out the truth as soon as possible.

For the awesome.club, no matter how much you love your mate; the important thing is to never lose your self-esteem. That’s why we’ve put together seven signs we should pay attention to if something doesn’t seem to fit in our relationship.

There is nothing wrong with a person wanting to try something new. But if changes come unexpectedly and radically, perhaps that style has been picked up from someone else. When a person is in love, the exchange of interests and hobbies usually happens in a much more subtle way.

If before the other person didn’t give flowers or gifts, didn’t care and didn’t show affection, but suddenly starts doing that (and often), maybe this is a good time to reflect. If your partner does this, he may be trying to make up for some guilt.

If before the arguments ended in a peaceful and quiet way and now they are repeated more often and with phrases like “If I’m so bad, let’s separate!”, it’s better to pay attention. The person may be transferring responsibility to you.

If the loved one suddenly starts to worry about their appearance, loses weight, changes their haircut, takes care that their clothes are always perfect or changes some behaviors, it is necessary to try to find out where these twists came from. It is unlikely that a person who has always behaved in one way will unexpectedly behave in another. In general, this happens gradually.

Another sign: your partner strongly condemns people who have been unfaithful. This is a protection mechanism used so that the other person has no idea that someone is cheating on them. So if your partner is too emotionally judgmental about a cheater, they may not be as honest as you think.

A person who is being unfaithful sooner or later starts to get stressed because he finds himself trapped in his lie, or even with no way out in his infidelity. In these cases, he begins to avoid answers to direct questions, does not speak the same sentences as before about feelings and tries to talk only about neutral or everyday topics.

You plan a time together, but suddenly you call your partner from work and ask him to go to an emergency meeting. If it happens once in a while, that’s fine, but if it happens often, it’s best to be suspicious. Especially if you don’t ask too many questions or if you start to hear phrases like “If you don’t believe me, ask my colleague”.

Of course these are just signs and could be just signs, really. We should look at situations calmly and always talk. But what about you, would you be able to forgive an infidelity? What other signs do you think should make this list?