There are many myths surrounding parenting. A good example is teething, which some people believe is to blame for a number of illnesses. Another interesting example is when a baby is called a genius for starting to talk much earlier than the others. Most of these ideas still linger because people never understood the exact workings of a baby’s and toddler’s brain. But have there been advances in recent years?
We, from awesome.club, we are always looking for the most reliable information, and parenting is an issue that deserves even more attention. Today we bring some myths that we should abandon about babies and children.
Myth 1: Children have more difficulty speaking when parents speak to them in a “baby voice”
Speaking in a “baby voice” is not silly, it is a powerful tool in language development. In people’s minds, childish speech is not correct, but many experts claim that this more high-pitched and singing speech helps children learn words when repeated correctly.
In addition to preferring the sound of baby speech over “adult” speech, this way the little ones also learn new words, that is, it helps to attract the child’s attention and to involve them in the conversation. Equally important is the fact that it is a way of strengthening the ties between parents and children, as this way babies understand emotions more easily.
Myth 2: Children who learn to read early will be geniuses
While often impressive, starting to read too early is not a guarantee of great academic achievement in the future. Visual-spatial learning tends to make the child learn to read later. The important thing is to know that the linguistic and playful interactions with the little ones before school are the key to what comes afterwards, because language is linked to a series of other types of learning.
Myth 3: They need to eat a wide variety of foods every day
This myth might work in a perfect world, not ours. Although it is important to maintain a balanced diet, most children are picky and tend to refuse new foods, that is, they need to get used to new things little by little. There are other reasons why little ones refuse food, but the most common is that they just don’t like it. There isn’t much of a mystery.
In this sense, most children do not eat all food groups on a daily basis, and it is not good that this is imposed. The key is to add new foods and understand what they like and what they reject.
Myth 4: They can’t do housework (and parents shouldn’t force them)
Children like to help with household chores because they feel important and part of the family. There are some things they can do, like cleaning toys, putting dirty clothes in the hamper, napkins on the table, or cleaning dishes after meals. The key is to keep the process simple, fun, and repetitive, and never forget about the compliments.
Myth 5: They need to sleep through the night
Children have more sleep cycles than adults, so they tend to wake up more often during the night. Also, they get more sleep, which also means more nightmares, monsters under the bed, and shadows on the wall. Another aspect to be considered is the fear, of many of them, of their parents not coming back, that is, the perfect scenario for a night of much agitation.
Myth 6: They can and should share their stuff
Young children don’t quite understand the importance of sharing things, and the ability to share objects only becomes more real from children. three and a half or four years🇧🇷 Before understanding the importance of sharing, they need to understand other important concepts.
Sharing requires the child to understand and care about the feelings of others, which does not happen when he is very young. This means they are not selfish or mean when they don’t want to share something, they are just kids.
Myth 7: Naughty children have more tantrums
Every child has temper tantrums and such episodes are normal in childhood. It is important to emphasize that these moments of fury do not define whether the parents are good or not. Tantrums happen because the brain’s emotion regulation center can’t handle big emotions and social rules.
What other myths about children and education do you know? Have you been through these situations with your children?
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