13 Phrases Not to Say When You’re in a Relationship

And although they speak the same language, men and women see things differently. But somehow we end up falling in love, starting a family, and sometimes even spending our entire lives with someone. To feel good in a relationship, it’s worth remembering that certain thoughts and opinions should be kept only with you.

O awesome.club presents in this post which are the phrases that should no longer be part of your repertoire as soon as possible!

Unfortunately, even if this statement is true, the phrase will not improve the situation. If you’re feeling very irritated, before releasing what’s going through your head, it’s better to take a break, catch up on ideas and only then, instead of looking for someone to blame, start a constructive dialogue. The responsibility in a relationship lies with both of you and only you, on your part, can change something, so it is always better to analyze the situation calmly, to find a good way out of it.

This is a not very smart way of trying to manipulate your partner. You expect him to immediately run towards him to show you his love. The first 5 times, he might comply with your requests, but after a while, his patience and desire will wane and he’ll be less and less interested in chasing you. How you treat your partner today will determine the future of your relationship. Do not choose the wrong path of manipulation.

You asked your partner to help you with some housework, but you realize that everything he does is far from what you expect or demand. So you end up saying: “You don’t need to help anymore, I’ll do it myself”. Needless to say, next time he won’t respond and in the end will end up putting aside the household chores he used to do before.

Many mothers, prone to overprotection, completely cut off the fathers’ initiative in raising their children: they control every step, decide whether to let the child go somewhere with the father, and so on. With their own hands, they end the connection between the two, in addition to reducing the father’s desire to do different activities with the child.

If you don’t want your partner to associate you with a type of boss, who calls his employee into his office to lecture him, it’s best not to introduce the conversation with that type of sentence. These expressions frighten and, on the other hand, generate resistance. If you intend to discuss a matter seriously, bring it up unannounced and choose the appropriate moment so that nothing distracts you.

It seems to be a beautiful and totally harmless phrase. But behind her hides a terrifying sacrifice and childishness unbecoming a grown woman. Men can feel fear because of so much responsibility, especially if this is said at the beginning of a relationship. It is better to express your love in a different way, for example, with a seductive look and a delicious dinner.

Are you worried that your partner is going to propose to you after all? So instead of dropping hints, pay attention to his behavior. That way, you’ll get a lot more information to think about it and it’s much better to understand his intentions than to receive a cross or unenthusiastic response.

If you don’t like watching your partner play video games when he should be working or helping you with the housework, trying to embarrass him or drop hints won’t cut it. Try to invest in the relationship and analyze the reasons for his behavior. In general, guys who behave like children often choose “adult mothers”. Stop wanting to be his mother.

The ultimatum is a very effective mechanism for… parting. If a person acts one way or another, that’s just the tip of the iceberg. By forbidding something, you have no influence over your inner desires. When submitting, at first the guy may repress his desires, but later, he will end up going in the opposite direction. Talk to him about your desires and give him the opportunity to choose. what you need and feel like.

Let that question be asked by him. Ironically, the man likes to feel that he is in charge of the conquest, and not the other way around. And a mysterious woman, who says nothing concrete, is much more desirable than one who desperately seeks to arrange an appointment, as if she always had a diary in her hands.

If that same question had been asked of you? It would be very unpleasant, right? Even if you don’t like his style, it’s best not to talk about it directly. A good way out would be to suggest that a certain style would suit you. But, of course, in a moment of tranquility for the couple.

To ask this question in those terms is to show your insecurity about your partner’s feelings towards you. Stop paying so much attention to him and focus on other things, learn something new, reduce your time with him and see if he misses you or not. It’s better that way than hearing a “yes” almost out of obligation.

This phrase sounds like a challenge and is also a kind of gross manipulation. A small child might rush to show that he can do something, that he is not weak. But a man can even do that sometimes, but once he realizes what’s going on, he’ll change his attitude and, of course, for the worse.

It’s like basically saying, “you can’t do anything right”. It’s like putting yourself above your partner, as if you’re doing an audit. What answer do you think he will give? Instead of asking such a question, better support him by saying that nothing so terrible happened. If you’re really angry, it’s better not to say anything. An intelligent person knows for himself when and where he went wrong.

We hope that our advice will help you maintain (or find) harmony in your relationship. Love and be loved! Do you have examples of unpleasant phrases that should be banned from female vocabulary? What are you waiting to share in the comments?