11 Things That Make Even Strong Singles Think About Marriage

Nowadays they say that most people will do anything not to get married. It is true that some, even the most passionate, are in no hurry to formalize the relationship, and many men tend to run away from the altar and end up pressured by women to change their minds. But there are other ways to change someone’s mind about marriage.

Today, contrary to recent trends, let’s try to understand the reasons that can lead men to form a family.

Marriage is a serious responsibility that involves both material and psychological aspects. By saying ‘yes’, people show responsibility for their words and actions.

Therefore, they say that bosses consider a subordinate with an alliance a person more likely to face a daily struggle to maintain a family budget and will do anything to overcome the challenges. As a result, according to a study by Time magazine, the salary of married people grows faster than that of single people.

But getting married without a real feeling is not an alternative, mainly because the relationship is doomed to failure.

In the eyes of the government and financial institutions, a married man seems more reliable than a single man, mainly because he tends to make more commitments to support his family. Therefore, a marriage increases the chances of getting a loan.

Also, during an interview to get a visa, some embassies ask about the marital status of the person concerned, and this is not just out of politeness. A positive answer, for them, is a good indication that the man will return, since his family will be waiting for him.

Sooner or later the interminable meetings, the strained smiles and the uncomfortable pauses at the table start to bother you. At that moment, the man finally decides, to eliminate these sensations and because the bank account thanks him. Some scientists have found that having a family improves mental health and helps to prolong life.

Of course, family life is not just about eating pizza in front of the television. There are commitments, children, and much more, but the possibility of sharing intimacies is always more pleasant.

“If she can, so can I. She needs to see that I’m not just anyone.” That’s how some men think, especially those who miss their ex. This shows that they continue to keep an eye on the past, especially through social media. Her wedding photos are motivation for him to make a decision. We all know the result: photos and more wedding photos on social media.

Physical intimacy for married men is a way to increase bonding and relieve tension. After some time together, the two people know very well what to do and what not to do. In addition, according to a survey of men conducted by the American Institute of Health, married people have a much more emotional and sensual intimate relationship compared to singles.

Yes, the biological clock is also relentless with men. This conclusion was presented by the American researcher and author John Molloy. In a study of 121 men, many expressed great concern about their ability to have children diminished over time. They would like to be young parents to teach their children the things that parents usually teach like cycling, fishing, playing sports, etc. When singles see the way their friends raise their children, they start to seriously consider changing their marital status.

With age, men start to value comfort and convenience more and more. Keeping the house in order is always easier by sharing chores. This helps free up time for personal activities. But beware of men who think a woman’s place is in the home, or worse, in the kitchen. Tasks must be shared, all of them.

In many cultures, it is the parents who decide the marriage of their children. It may seem old-fashioned, but it’s still real. Such marriages can rarely be called love relationships, as everything is bound to. But it can happen that this dynamic leads a man to be more reflective, responsible and respectful of his wife and other women.

Natural instincts cannot be deceived. Men are raised to be the leaders and champions—we might disagree with that dynamic, but it exists, and in many cultures it is still very strong. A man wants his family to be proud of him and look up to him. The only way to be a leader and a hero is to create your own herd.

Sooner or later a single man starts to feel uncomfortable around so many married friends. In general, friends keep telling you that it’s time for you to meet someone. Eventually, the example of friends begins to influence single men and they begin to look at the advantages of having a family. In addition, they no longer believe the story that a marriage is a big bust.

The best and only reason a woman should say ‘yes’. Each person’s love is different and manifests itself in different ways. But when the feeling is strong and true, doubts about marriage seem to disappear.

The reasons that lead people to get married are individual. And often, as much as we have high expectations, we can never know whether or not the marriage will be happy. A life together requires care, work, companionship and a lot of understanding. But above all, it is essential that there is love.

And you, already married? If yes, tell us how the decision was made.

If not, let us know if you want to get married.