When a woman is in love, it can seem like she will do anything to keep the relationship going. But there’s always a limit, and when that limit is crossed, she’s able to leave even the man of her dreams behind without a second thought.
O awesome.club lists the 10 most common mistakes men make that can quickly end a relationship.
He doesn’t want to spice up the relationship
“Spicing up the relationship” is the same as turning the relationship into a roller coaster. But it’s vital to leave some space to try new things. If a man insists on going to the same restaurant every week or traveling to the same place every vacation because he doesn’t want to leave his comfort zone, his partner will soon get bored.
He accuses you of having too high expectations.
When a woman is thinking about breaking up with her loved one, most likely she will have already done everything to try to save the relationship. But if the partner refuses to talk about situations that worry him and at the same time he complains that his expectations are unrealistic, the woman will have no doubt that the time has come to sort things out and break up.
He cancels engagements for two to go out with his friends
It’s impossible for a woman not to get upset if her boyfriend suddenly leaves her alone on a weekend, stays out late — ignoring her calls — or changes his schedule for whatever reason, putting her on the sidelines. If he gets used to canceling appointments to spending time with friends, it is normal for a woman to understand this situation as a sign that she has no importance in her life. And it won’t be long before she’s gone for good.
he acts in secret
“If he’s acting like he has something to hide, he’s definitely cheating on you.” Even if this sentence is not exactly true in your case, it may be true later on. Even if there’s nothing wrong with it, the fact that a man avoids reading text messages when he’s around his partner, talks vaguely about his plans, or gets defensive says something about his personality and his expectations for life together. THE lack of honesty and sincerity will make any woman look for a more stable partner.
He is never there when you need him.
This does not necessarily mean being present in body, but also in soul. A man can be sitting across from his girlfriend but still not be there when she wants to talk about topics that are important or bothering her. When a partner just pretends to be listening, a woman can feel and understand that she is being left out. Who wants a relationship like that?
He makes her feel like she’s his mother
One man child does not follow the plans, never want to have adult conversations and blames partner for complaining and being annoying. In this type of situation, any woman will soon get tired of feeling all the responsibility on her shoulders and will want to start looking for a mature man.
He ignores your opinions
When there is a need to make decisions that affect both people in the relationship, the woman expects her opinion to be taken into account. If a man thinks her wants and needs don’t count and focuses only on himself, she will understand that the guy doesn’t want her to be happy or, at the very least, that he doesn’t respect her.
He puts his career first
There’s nothing particularly bad about a person having big dreams to achieve. But when you’re in a relationship, even with a busy schedule, it’s important to take the time to focus on your partner and let her know how much you care about her. If your partner is always too busy to spend time with your sweetheart, the woman will want to leave him so that he can dedicate himself to his career. After all, isn’t that what matters to him?
He compares her to other women
It could be one of the ex-girlfriends, a colleague or the mother. Regardless of who you are, girlfriend’s constant comparisons to other women are a very dangerous mistake, which can instantly end the relationship. This makes a woman feel terrible, negatively affects her self-esteem and, most likely, will end in a breakup.
He makes you question whether it matters
Appreciation is important to a healthy relationship and it means appreciating a partner even for the little things they do. If, instead of showing how much the partner is important to him, the man looks down on her and doesn’t want to put any kind of energy into the relationship, she will never feel comfortable with him.
Would you add any other item to the list we present? If you’ve been in any of these situations, what did you do to save the relationship? Share your thoughts with us.
Illustrated by Olga Khodiukova exclusive to Incrível.club
Are You Ready to Discover Your Twin Flame?
Answer just a few simple questions and Psychic Jane will draw a picture of your twin flame in breathtaking detail: